A long and happy relationship is not as easy as it seems. To keep your feelings warm, you need to make a lot of effort. And talk to the guy too, you need to be able to!
Here are 10 rules that will help to preserve feelings for many years to come
Our speech should be filled with positive emotions. This is of interest and admiration to men. The main thing is to speak sincerely!
We reduce the number of instructions and instructions to the other half! Instructions are pressure on the other person, and if there is a lot of them, sooner or later resistance will come on, even for the most patient man.
Ask for it! The genre of request is very profitable! Please allow the man to feel strong and able to show concern for the woman!
Remove the speech stamps, as they eventually begin to irritate. Some formulations of the partner become like broken records and reduce interest in him. The person becomes absolutely predictable. Ask your loved ones to name the words you say most often in your speech. You probably don't even know that you have parasitic words.
Don't overdo it by showing off your achievements. If we talk a lot about our global victories, we demonstrate strength! And if a man is weaker inside, he will become a child after a while. He will adjust and be glad that you are carrying everything on yourself! And if a man is a leader, he will get tired of such a girl.
Argue sensibly and not often. It turns out that any dispute or assertive phrase instantly makes a man feel that the woman enters into competition with him. If it is a friendship, it is normal. But if you want some serious relationship with a guy, then do not seek to defeat him in every dispute.
Reduce the number of pronouns "I" in speech. When there are too many of them, we deal with a person who either has strong leadership characteristics or is too self-centered. I encourage women to ask men questions from the sphere they are interested in. When he talks about what he is interested in, he enters a hypnotic trance with himself. He feels good. Testosterone is thrown into his bloodstream, and you become a source of inspiration for him.
Talk about different things! There should always be a balance in the family. People who live with each other for a long time often encounter a so-called "domestic servant", because of which the relationship between husband and wife can cease to be emotional. All conversations are about common problems only. This is bad. The partners are beginning to perceive each other as working together. It is very important to have an emotional conversation where we discuss personal topics. We can dream about the future or just share our experiences. All this contributes to the increase of emotional intimacy between partners.
Don't take it all on yourself. If a woman decides a lot herself and acts in her own way, then at some point she is left absolutely alone with her tasks. The brain of a man learns very quickly. No matter what he suggests, it will be different! Try to analyze how often you can be silent when your man says, in your opinion, another stupidity.
Notice the virtues and strengths of your man! This is a real magic wand! Find one or two reasons to praise your loved one right now. Even cooler if you can thank him for something.