Give him a little more respect.
"Big man", "husband", "big master", "Little Woman", "little daughter-in-law" and so on.From these titles, we can see that a man, in the family from the beginning to the core position.From ancient times to today, China's family model is "male master outside, female master inside", therefore, people often refer to women as "wife", "bitch", or "Good Wife".
Therefore, women should not engage in a power struggle with men in their homes.Give the man his family sovereignty, let the husband more self-respect, let him be a man in front of people, the family outside the family are a righteous man.Let him always feel that he is a man, exalted, wind scenery light.Do not let your husband hero short, do a "doormat" or "loser".
The man is the woman's head, the man is the backbone of the family, this position is a woman can not be replaced.So, a good woman always give her husband some self-esteem, let her husband straight back, do a capital man.
Two, give him a little more trust
Big said that men have their own business, Small said that men want to support the family.For home, they have to keep working out, they have to deal with different gender, different ages, different identities of people of all stripes.As a wife, to fully trust his husband, do not have to be suspicious of his husband and which woman said more; do not have to worry about how he always does not come home?He said busy, you believe that he is really busy, do not doubt that he is lying to you.Even if you get through his phone and hear that he is in a high-class hotel, you have to believe that he is a normal entertainment, rather than looking for another chic.As a wife, do not be suspicious of ghosts, let alone to your husband.To be sure, his husband is outside, but is a scene, he eventually always love is himself.
Three, give him a little more tolerance
Make you tolerant, mostly because the husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or do something I'm sorry for you.This tolerance is really easier said than done.Because in order to be tolerant, first of all to calm and rational.Women are more emotional, slightly unsatisfactory, they can not control their feelings, play their wayward and small temper.Plus the woman's belly is not broad enough, whenever the husband sorry for themselves, they think that they are the most unfortunate person in the world; is the biggest victim; is the most painful person.For this reason, because of grievance and blindly to seek justice for themselves, and even become aggravated to make trouble.As everyone knows, can only force the husband to embark on the path of unfeeling.It's a good time to be smart.Even if the husband is really sorry to do their own thing, you must calmly think, to weigh the pros and cons, and good grasp of the degree of conflict with the husband.The so-called Cotton hidden needle, killing with kindness.As a wife may wish to give her husband a little more forgiveness and tolerance.Your tolerance will make him move, will make him feel guilty.Guilt is the only sin; gratitude is the only reward.
Four, give him a little care
Caring for a man is not just about making him clothed, but above all caring for his inner world.To fully understand what a husband really needs, what he really likes.It is not simply to indulge, but to allow the husband to truly realize his desires and values.
If a woman, who has not read her husband in her lifetime, is truly a sad woman.If a woman, you say what her husband wants to say, you do what her husband wants, and you let him get what he wants.I don't think my husband is going to be out there looking for gratification.Communication between people, mainly the heart and the heart of communication between husband and wife is even more so.There is a connection between the heart, not only by the tacit understanding between two people, the main thing is a woman's insight into the inner world of men.To do the Prophet, requires a woman keen observation, careful understanding and timely mind collision.
Five, give him a little understanding
Men also have the difficulties and difficulties of men, especially men in the family to play the important mission of succession, the light of the ancestor, is bound to more than a woman of responsibility and obligation.As a wife, learn to understand your husband, when a woman marries a man, you must remember that he is not only married to this individual, and married to the man behind the whole background.You should take the initiative to yourself as an important member of the family, conscientiously fulfill their due responsibilities, do not care about personal gains and losses.In fact, the same family, who get all the same, and once lost, is the loss of the whole family.To understand the husband, is to give him a stepping stone, let him across the road obstacles; to understand the husband, is to give him an umbrella, shelter for him.Understand the husband, is to give him some sympathy; give him some mercy; give him some support.
Six, give him a little more space
Men have a world of men.He has his own hobbies, interests, etc., a woman must not let her husband for himself and change his character; more can not erase his personality.Give him a free space, let him have a party to fly the sky.To know that the outside world is wonderful, it is only a small station, the body and mind tired man, his eternal home is in the warmth of home.Guardian of their home, is for the husband to light a gentle lamp, for him to open a door forever.Use the light of the lamp to guide him, so that he will not lose his way; open the door that is not closed, let his Harbor full of warm since that man is a woman on the head of the sky, then you give him a pair of wings, let him fly.The kite flies higher and farther, you do not have to worry, because the line tightly clutched in your hands.