Pregnancy is wonderful, it not only allows you to get a lovely baby, but also for you to open up another world.The upright tummy allows you to automatically have membership in a small group of pregnant moms and mums.Take advantage of pregnancy to expand your relationships and activate those relationships that have been dormant.For the baby belly and yourself, to create an unprecedented harmonious home.
Melting the office ICE.
Oral: Zeng Ying
Wonderful change:she went from being a hostile colleague to becoming my pregnancy coach
Every company or unit has some people and things you don't like.I was just sitting next to the man I couldn't stand.From a long time ago, we stopped talking to each other.
To be honest, I particularly dislike her.She ran to the Office of the leadership, not to see her in the office at a dinner to the leadership of the toast the way, not to see her often deliberately nibbling in the office, not to see her contrived behavior.Every time I see her, I feel very glare, very hate.
Then one day, we finally got into a fight.Since then we have stopped talking to each other.Every time I saw her, I went into first-rate defences and kept fighting with her again.In fact, our office atmosphere is good, and I and everyone is more harmonious, except for her.She was like a stone in a delicious meal, always gnawing her teeth.
After the pregnancy, other female colleagues are good to me, enthusiastic to give me advice, help me remind male colleagues do not smoke, take the initiative to help me copy, fax.Only she remained indifferent appearance, my heart is surrounded by a warm or a little uncomfortable.
On one occasion, we both happened to be in the elevator at work.Two people went into the elevator without words, and the elevator door closed.Two relatively silent people do have a little awkwardness in such a small space.When I was uncomfortable, I suddenly heard her say: "your belly is very sharp, probably a boy."”
I was stunned and couldn't help but say, " that's great,I want a boy.""When I got back to the office, I felt like I was sitting on my side," she said.In the afternoon, the leader asked me to prepare several conference materials.I want to use the photocopier, but the other women are busy.As he hesitated, one hand reached over: "do you want to help?”
I looked up, it was her.My heart frozen for a long time a little bit of ice melted, I kind of find the treasure surprise and moved.After getting closer to her, she told me a lot about her pregnancy.For example, she does not love to drink water, baby amniotic fluid is less likely to have a relationship;she is pregnant when she loves to eat boiled corn, the results of her son after 1 year old saw boiled corn can not walk...... chat with her, I was pregnant a lot of distress, doubts have been answered.After she gave birth, she gave me some old clothes and toys for her baby.
Looking back on how she looked after me and helped me during my pregnancy, I felt very warm.Still, she's the kind of person who makes people uncomfortable:she tends to drill into the leadership office, and acts like she does.But I prefer to think of it all as her unique way of living, and I don't feel that annoying and harsh.She has her way of living, I have mine, I just know she's still a good person, that's all.
Analysis：
Having a co-worker around you who's not happy with you is really a difficult thing to do.You and your colleagues are better than ever, and it's hard to make up for this uncomfortable vacuum.If you and your co-workers have ever had a miscarriage, it's a good idea to make up for it.
Pregnant mommy.：
The start of an icebreaker may be a small talk, a smile or a little bit of lifting.Don't care about the other side is the first move or their first move.
B if the ice break is not successful, the other party does not pick your stubble, then even, when the person does not exist.It is important to remember that everything is not your own mood and health.
C doesn't have to be friends with colleagues, just melt the ice in the office.
Pick up a friend for years
Narrator: Helen
Fantastic change:I'm happy to be at the reunion
When I was in college, I lived in a dormitory with the party branch of our class.She had so many things that made me dislike her.Her skirt was always hanging on someone else's bed;her phone was constantly texting after lights were out;she was mysteriously dating, but never revealed anything about her boyfriend on " the couch."
One time, we finally got into a fight because we couldn't open the window.
Later, I found that I wrote several times to join the party application is not always a letter, I guess that she is a ghost, I was more angry.Anyway, as long as she was a party branch, don't want to join the party, then I first out of anger.That's it. I had a three-day-long fight with her.
After college, we went our separate ways.Because I hate her, so I do not attend the party too much.
At the age of 6 months pregnant, she was notified of the meeting.I didn't want to go, but bored at home every day, so I went to the reunion.
The reunion was lively, but I was a little lonely.My bulky body got in my way, and I chatted with a bunch of classmates who weren't even married about being pregnant and having kids.That's when she came.For many years people who do not speak, actually volunteered to sit next to me and asked me about the situation.Although a bit awkward, but we still warm up to talk.It turned out that she was also pregnant, just over two months.
I don't know why, I suddenly had a sense of closeness to her.After the reunion, we left each other mobile numbers and addresses.She used to call me and chat, and we even went shopping together.Sometimes we make fun of each other, and we actually argue for such a small reason.She's a bit of a bluff now, and she likes to give people a lot of credit for that.But sometimes I think it's nice to have her as a person.
Now, my enthusiasm to attend the reunion is very high.When I think back to college, the quarrels and unpleasantness of those days have also erased the shadows and turned into lovely memories.
Analysis：
In your life, there will always be some people with you and you with you.But when you find common ground with a pregnant mommy, it's not hard to find someone who's different.Pregnancy is a wonderful time, and it seems to open a window for you to see the world from a different perspective.
Pregnant mommy.：
A it is a good thing to try to communicate with different mothers during pregnancy.You will find other circles also have wonderful.But in the face of things you are very uncomfortable with, you do not have to take seriously.
B in the process, you have to learn to pay, but also give the other side to let her pay the space.Each other, you will get along easier and more harmonious.
Distant relatives are neighbors.
Oral: Jun Jun
Wonderful change:it's nice to be close to your neighbours
We moved to this community for more than half a year, but and the neighbors are still very strange.By the first summer, we had an unhappy relationship with our upstairs neighbours.
One night when you go to sleep, turn off the lights, a kind of "om", "om",”om " sound more and more clear.The buzzing sound kept me awake.No way, put her husband to wake up and let him find the sound source for me.
We both analyzed what was thought to be the sound of the air-conditioning case upstairs.And so we were in our pajamas, and our hair knocked on the neighbor's door for the first time.The door is an old couple, they heard what we said, very happy to turn off the air conditioner.
We went back downstairs and there was no buzz.The room was clean and comfortable.The elderly are particularly saving, so as long as the air conditioning can still use, they will not want to change.It seems that this summer is going to be bad.
Sure enough, from then on this annoying noise is always ringing in the night.Sometimes when it was unbearable, I put on my pyjamas and went upstairs to knock on the door.The old lady upstairs grew impatient and yelled through the door: "because of you, have we not done it this summer?""I stood outside and I was like," you can change the air conditioner or cool it in other ways.""The Old Lady's voice went again:" why do we have to change the air conditioner?"You give money?”
I don't think the family is being unreasonable.
It wasn't long before I found out I was pregnant.The air conditioning problem has to be solved.One night we knocked on the door of an upstairs neighbor and told them I was pregnant and couldn't stand the noise.If they can change the air conditioning, we can make half the money.The old woman heard a sigh: "alas, you are so fragile child.”
After a few days, they bought themselves a new air conditioner and did not ask for our money.The old lady came downstairs and gave me some big goose eggs.The old lady said that it is the custom of their home, pregnant women eating goose eggs can go to the fetal poison.We also sent them a small box of American ginseng slices.
Later, sometimes in the elevator, the old couple will help me with heavy shopping bags.I also listen to their advice on parenting.We're getting along better and better.
Analysis：
Although the contradiction between the neighborhood will not be too big, but the pettiness always stirred up the rest of the people.Pregnant mother should take the initiative to create a harmonious atmosphere.In fact, as long as put down the figure, each step, a lot of small contradictions will be solved.
Pregnant mommy.：
A and older people, should listen to less.Older people especially like young people who listen modestly.
B the key to socializing with neighbors is to grasp the scale and not be too curious about other people's Home Affairs.