"Time can change everything!"It is not false, but in love, you have to weigh.If you are now trying to change your awkward situation, the following 8 situations for your reference.There is no result of love, the Let Go or as soon as possible.
One, you care about each other more
You're in a relationship, but you're not sure what the other person thinks;you think you're right, he seems to disagree;you miss him when he's not, he doesn't seem to make a difference when you're not, what does that mean?
"If the two men are not in the same spirit, can they go with each other?"Sometimes one party will love the other more situations, if in sound feelings, there will be alternating, two people take turns to play the role of the pursuit and the pursuit; but if one party always play the pursuer, such feelings are not perfect, long-term, you will be hungry for love, you will feel controlled by each other, you will feel angry,
Two, you love each other's potential
You love each other's potential, not the other's true appearance, you love each other's future possible appearance, that he is not your partner at all, but you transform the object.
Would you be satisfied if the other side wouldn't change in 50 years?If you always want to change each other, only feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling, with both sides of happiness as a bet.
When you are in a relationship with a person, you must love and respect the other person, not the way he is, but you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Three, you want to help each other
Do you often feel sorry for each other?Do you feel responsible for helping each other get on with their lives?Would you be afraid that if you left each other, he wouldn't stand for it?If so, you're probably a saviour.
Instead of looking for a suitable object, the rescuer finds an object that he sympathizes with and can help.Find a person who has been traumatized, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, and wronged, and you will be grateful to him for being a compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate.
The key here to remember is“respect", the object of your love must be someone you can respect,you must be proud of each other, your partner do not rescue you, but to you really understand him.
4. treat each other as objects of worship
The young actress fell in love with the Director, college students fell in love with the professor, Secretary fell in love with the boss ... and fell in love with the object of worship.
Both men and women must be treated equally,I do not mean status, but attitude, not excessive worship of each other.People who fall in love with the object of worship, usually with low self-confidence, they feel bad.
Five, you are just attracted to each other's appearance
Everyone does, right?If you find yourself attracted by a trait, ask yourself, if the other side does not have the big blue eyes, magnetic sound......, if the other side is not a model, will not play basketball......, I will be with him(she)?Men's appearance is the first productivity.
Six, the opportunity to spend time and time
You share a certain job with each other, often have to work overtime together,so you feel in love with each other.......You go on vacation for three weeks, meet a man who is also on vacation, you feel like falling in love.............A short time between mornings and evenings is when you get together in a special situation, which is not routine. this kind of feeling cannot last, because a short time between mornings and evenings is not enough for you to fully understand each other's personality.
Seven, in order to choose the object of rebellion
Parents always stress to you, to find a rich object, but you every boyfriend is poor; childhood parents discipline you strict, but you every girlfriend is very casual;from the childhood father's ear, pass incense is the most important thing, but your girlfriend is not born, just do not want to live……
If you choose the object, always make parents angry, most likely you just want to rebel, you feel sure to prove what to fight back, when you can not control their choice,you are not really love each other, this relationship is doomed to failure.
Eight, the other is not free
I left it to the end because it wasn't emotional at all.The first prerequisite for choosing a lifelong partner is that the other person is " free body.""Free body" is the freedom to communicate with you, not married, not engaged, no fixed object of communication, no sex with others, single, only with you people.
If the man you fell in love with agreed to break up with another woman early;or he said he did not love the woman, he loved you;or his original object to accept your existence, they do not want to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while;or he just broke up, but may be back..., these
Don't socialize with married or targeted people, no matter what excuse, the result is the same, you are doomed to heartbreak.Don't forget, you just accept the leftover part of another person.
The choice is in your hands, the responsibility is in you, you have to choose the right person.If you have a relationship, and you are one of the eight feelings mentioned above, don't waste time, there are better ones waiting for you.