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Through the Long Goodbye of Old Love

Through the Long Goodbye of Old Love

   Wang xiaowan sat in front of me and told me stories.

  A beer bottle.The fermented malt makes the memory alive, and the narrator repeats it.

  I've heard that story before.The actress is our former students, with my eyes, it is only childhood sweetheart love, but became Wang Xiaochun never put down the old feelings.In every narrative, the details change fickle, but the girls turned away, but the memory is clear.Wang Xiaochun will subconsciously compare her with his wife, feeling that love is a stranger, and then imagine another different life.

  Full of tender memories make the past become beautiful.In the repeated narratives, the faintest remnants of memory are reassembled, and the old story becomes full of colorful plot.What you read from the inside is not a“reappearance”, but an imagination, an excuse, and an expectation.Can not say that it is unrecognizable, but at least changed its appearance.Those blurred gray areas, after deliberately drawn to become clear and see; those broken images, because of human modification and bright.Back to the good old days, mixed with the loss of love of regret, Wang Xiaochu in remembrance and imaginary feelings of happiness, but also in frustration and contrast in the pain.

  The desire to find the old has been dormant in the heart, the vision implies dissatisfaction with reality.In fact, the heart hidden shortcomings: if you did not miss, there must be a lifetime of happiness.This assumption is fraught with disorientation.If you go for it, it will be like a mirage, gesture waving to you, but you never catch; and once you take it as a reference to real life, a series of trivial, mediocre, tired will become more unbearable.

  Who can rival a beautiful Phantom?The more unattainable, the more precious.Over and over again, Wang Xiaochun is in his own fantasy and ramble back to the past, the future fantasy.

  Sometimes I think, in the remembrance of the old love, we can distinguish, pity is that once the dream haunts the soul of the person, or love the love of the young themselves-so pure, not afraid of hard, full of courage, which is now has the heart of the rush, the pressure, the power of us, is so attractive and the temptation!

  The original dust of the past, in the reconstruction of the imagination, become the current insurmountable comparison.It has no effect on the past, but let the person in it lost.The illusion is like a foggy swamp. the more you want to escape, the deeper you get.And the Unreal coordinate system, extremely harsh measurement of real life situations, precise positioning, but meaningless-except to let the people in distress.

  The way we deal with old feelings, the way they react to real life.Imaginative, resentful or deliberately evasive, can not change the past, only affect the present.We can't erase our past experiences, but it is always possible to encounter a loved one-whether it is true face, or indulge in remembrance.How to deal with the old, it becomes a test of some ability. 

  The old can become a standard, but also can become an enemy.In this regard, the fighting of women seems to be more intense.Casual occasions caught in the old love, most of them want their own attitude Wan Fang, Zhuo Yun uncommon.Even in the midst of a melancholy situation, there was a pride in that moment.No matter the reason for the break-up-voluntary abandonment, or forced to end, are unwilling.Now meet again, how can defeat?If the old love side stood a new love, naturally more than a comparison, at least, to have enough surface evidence-clothing, looks, temperament, prove that they are stronger than people.

  Because not satisfied, so at the end of an old love secretly determined that the successor must be stronger than the Old Love.Love then into the arena, a round of PK, the opponent is always already with the people have nothing to do.The winner of the contest is the finalist, forgetting that the marriage is happy, not whether the partner is good enough, but whether they are congenial and depend on each other.

  When the old feelings become rivals, we have to fight for only the success or failure of a competition, rather than the emotional harmony itself.

  Of course, there are people hurt by the situation, as the former is spacious.In their narrative, old love is nothing.If you ask for reasons to break up, you will hear too many complaints, blame the fault on each other, alone lack of self-examination.In fact, a defeated marriage, there is no innocent, the relationship between two people, is always mutual.You can't really understand your flaws when you can't see the gains and losses in a lost relationship.Turning a blind eye to weakness causes the same mistakes in the next love.

  Those who complain and despise old love either fail to get out of the illusion of being“persecuted”or overestimate themselves.It is difficult for them to build harmonious relationships and eventually fall into a vicious cycle of failure—complaining—and then failure—complaining.

  Not all people can put down old feelings.Some people hurt by love, always want to retaliate;some deep in the meantime, unable to extricate themselves; some deliberately compared to the hypothetical.Farewell may be out of frustration, but let down must be willing.