When she told me, I especially regret that another good friend went to another city.She told me: "this is the closest person to my soul, we are quite tacit, he has completely conquered me in spirit, he wants me to go to his company to help him."She was so excited when she said that to me," she said.
I can fully understand her feelings,she is a very pure man, has been waiting to be able to conquer her spirit man, now, this man appeared, what reason do I stop her?I can only smile and bless her, and told her to take care of themselves.She quickly quit her well-developed job in Beijing, gave up the circle of friends she just knew, went to a brand new city, entered a brand new industry, such a move, to be honest, in my eyes as a friend, it is some adventure.She wrote on the qq sign: "nothing is a risk, nothing is a risk."Soon, she flew away.
But a month later, she called me and said she was back in Beijing.I said, how long do you stay?She said, just come back ah, no longer go.When I saw her again, I felt her fatigue, and she was in a hurry to find a house in a hotel.Because of this desire for love, breaking the original smooth life.
Although sorry for her, but I still admire her, admire her courage.Yes, for women, where love is, and where home is.This is a sensual woman, a woman who has lost her mind for love, regardless of cost.
In fact, there are many such examples,including some strong big woman, when the right man appeared, their behavior, still very little woman, full of love believers, quite pious.
The co-president of Dangdang network Yu Yu is a good example.In 1992, Yu received an MBA in finance and international business from New York University,and then founded a corporate mergers and acquisitions advisory firm in New York.Wall Street was already in a state of flux, well versed in the rules of Wall Street investment.
In 1995, Yu met Li Guoqing, appreciate each other's talents, have experienced some ups and downs, also have done unit practice in love, have been more than 30 years old, Cherish the feelings and trust of both sides at that time, do not waste any more time, so they married.It's like doing a sophisticated calculation, two people who don't want to waste time, from meeting to getting married, they only took three months.With Yu Yu's words: Marry a chicken, marry a dog with a dog, marry a stone and walk.In 1996, she gave up everything in the United States, and returned home with her husband, Li Guoqing, to co-founded Dangdang.
SOHO China co-president Zhang Xin is also a good example.The story of their encounter has long been known.Indeed, I admire Zhang Xin's vision.So many Overseas Elite, so many domestic high-minded children, she is on the look of both the soil and the unassuming Pan Shiyi, but also lightning to marry her.Too brave!
Before meeting Pan Shiyi, Zhang Xin was already in high spirits, and after obtaining a master's degree in economics from Cambridge University, Zhang Xin worked at the Bahraini bank, Goldman Sachs Group, Wall Street Investment Bank traveler group, and was directly responsible for investment projects in China.
At that time, Zhang Xin was paid $ 200,000 a year, and if he married Pan Shiyi, he would have to return to China and possibly lose his job as a foreign multinational.In the view of Zhang Xin's friends, this will lead to a decline in Zhang Xin's standard of living.Heard Zhang Xin to marry the news, foreign friends called: "Zhang Xin Ah!When you get married, you have to give up your big house in Hong Kong against Victoria Bay!If you want to marry, you can marry a foreign student or people working on Wall Street, their annual salary will be at least more than a million dollars,they are certainly more promising than Pan Shiyi, that is your happy choice.Others said: "Zhang Xin, the soil of the old Pan what good!I don't know what you think!”
But Zhang Xin insisted, she told friends: "Pan Shiyi is a good and intelligent person, although not out of the country, do not speak English, but I as a woman to judge, I think he will give me happiness."She and Pan Shiyi became the most visible couple in the real estate industry, and each other's careers.
Imagine, if Yu Yu and Zhang Xin did not give up Wall Street to return home, then there will be no Dangdang, there will be no SOHO China, their lives will be greatly rewritten.
At the same time, I think of the wandering legendary woman, she is three hair.She followed Love, followed the Dutch, in the vast desert, in the testimony of the camel skull, wrote his vows of love.They married in the desert and lived a still turbulent but sweet life.Later, Jose dives no longer come up, San Mao's heart has been taken away.
Does every woman's heart have a love for wandering San Mao?All want to abandon the secular jumble, and their loved ones together, the head will not go away.Away from the hustle and bustle, away from the metropolis intrigues, to be a simple life like a woman, with love never-ending sweet wandering...... like sanmo so free and easy woman after all, but like sanmo so Chasing Love woman is a lot.
"Home", Oracle-shaped, above the " 宀 "(mián), said the House related, the following is "hog", that is, Pigs.Ancient productivity is low, people in the house to raise pigs, so the House has become a sign of the pig.
But for women, it is usually where love is, where love is, where home is.A woman can give up work for a man, give up the city, give up the cause, give up the circle of friends, give up the shelter of parents, come to her lover.
Because there is love, there is love of the place is home, otherwise just empty house, just a stranger.
At a young age, you can chase for love.Before the age of 30, you can go after to fight, after the age of 30, to live for yourself, let yourself be the love of each other, let each other follow you.
Today, in the big cities, women insist, without a house there is no home, there is no house to marry.So, no house, women are afraid to easily become a family.
Home is different from the house, a house does not necessarily have a home, because only the heart has a habitat, that is the real home, otherwise, the house is big, the heart is wandering, that you are just a wandering passers-by.
—- Selected from Zhao geyu " Happy Women Are Water Cube》