Today we will discuss the topic of "good and bad." We are often visited by various illusions, which we blindly follow. And as a result, we are at an impasse in our thoughts. Who evaluates the criteria for what is happening to us? That's right, we ourselves. And who said that we know everything and reason correctly, without taking into account various factors (hormones, astrology, etc.)? Thus, it seems to us that everything is bad with us, while others are doing well, and some live very well, which causes envy. Now we will understand the “goodness” of what is happening and determine how good or bad it is.
WHEN TOO EVERYTHING IS GOOD - IT IS NOT ALWAYS GOOD
How often do we take offense at people close to us, believing that through their fault we are not doing as well as we would like? Ask yourself this question right now, list all who you had to be offended by. Now we will engage in self-analysis and the identification of rebuttals to your grievances. Perhaps in this article you can understand something that you never even knew about. Moreover, after reading to the end, you will leave your grievances and take a different look at your life and those around you.
Why did I choose this topic? As usual, for good reason. And I am sure that this article will be useful to you.
Most recently, I learned about the tragedy in a happy family. Such a family is an example to follow: smart, talented children, there is wealth, they live together and joyfully. These people radiated a sea of positive energy, charged them with their powerful energy. As the saying goes, “everything is there for happiness,” but ... an irreparable tragedy happened in their family. And now this family does not smile as before, because they have become one less person.
In accounting, balance, in the body balance, in nature balance - everywhere and in everything there should be a balance.
I gave this example so that you can understand what is not always good when everything is good. This means an imbalance in the system. Now think about which parent you are not happy with. How often do you blame them for all your failures and compare them with someone who is doing well, in your opinion? Maybe this negative experience balanced your system and you are alive and well, your children are healthy? Analyze your life, look around and never blame anyone. Yes, someone may be all right now, but what they had to go through in the past, you don’t know.
Thank your parents for everything, even for the negative, so it should be for your good. We do not know what awaits us in the future!
WHEN EVERYTHING IS BAD
Very often you have to hear the phrase “I'm doing badly”. The most interesting thing is that this expression is peculiar only to the female sex. Men a priori are not prone to whining, but there are exceptions - “defective men”, and any marriage can be repaired or remade.
If you think that everything is bad and you are unhappy, pay attention to several signs that will dissuade you of this.
12 signs that you are doing well in life, even if you don’t think so:
- Do you have food
- You have clean water
- You have a comfortable bed
- Do you have clothes
- You have desires, dreams, goals
- You have a desire to become better
- You have real friends
- You have a feeling - love
- You know how to forgive insults
- You have the right to choose
- You have the opportunity to learn (the Internet to help), to develop
- Do you have someone to live for?
Most often it turns out that to a person with the thought “everything is bad with me” it only seems to be, but in reality, everything is fine with him. You just need to learn to notice everything and everyone, even the little things. Here is a real example of a bouquet of wildflowers with a size of 3 cm. When I see this photo and understand how cool the photo turned out, I am already fine - I can take pictures! And no one will dissuade me of this.
Now let's summarize and compare “when everything is bad” and “when everything is good” - which is better? As you already understood, there are no criteria that could establish an advantage between these statements.
When everything is very good - this is not always good, and when everything is bad - in 99% of cases it is all good.
If you know, there are still nations living in some regions without clean water and food, but they smile and rejoice, continuing to bury children who die from the terrible virus. These people will never say “everything is bad with me”, simply because they don’t know what is when everything is good ... And those who have everything okay do not know what is when everything is really bad (see above 12 signs) .
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