Illusions, where do they come from?
When communicating with many people, it’s not uncommon to notice that they live in illusions, some dreams that, in their opinion, will happen with 100% probability. But, alas, this is not at all the case. Illusions are the ability of our brain to come up with something that will help us to “survive” and give positive emotions. And when these illusions are destroyed, in the form of unfulfilled desires, it becomes very sad. Why is this happening, let's figure it out.
Today, young people feed on information from the world wide web. And this is not bad, I want to tell you, because you can get an answer to any question. Even the one that, it seems, has never been asked before by any means. I have not yet met a single question that I would not receive an answer in Google.
In the days of my childhood and youth, the Internet reached a peak of accessibility when I was in 11th grade. And I had to acquire this “miracle” because of my studies at the university.
Books on self-development, training of this kind, and in general everything related to remote business are becoming very popular. Having seen various kinds of information businessmen, having passed their coaching, many wear pink glasses and plunge into the world of illusions, and deeply and for a long time. And besides themselves, no one can take off these glasses, because they are 100% convinced that their business will bring them a million while they travel the world. There are really successful businessmen who were able to build their business remotely and live for their own pleasure - I am familiar with them and their field of activity. But this does not mean that looking at them, we will do the same and achieve success! We are all different, we have different energies, abilities, talents, etc. We are unique and do not need to imitate anyone, but to be a person: confident, wise and kind. And then, you will achieve everything, believe me. If you noticed in social networks some girls like to post “expensive” photos downloaded from the Internet. And they expose them for their own, allegedly it is they. The face is not visible, the main thing is that the figure, color and length of the hair match. This also applies to life in illusions, they believe and are convinced that this will be so.
How do illusions affect us?
What happens at a time when the invented success does not suddenly come, but turns into bankruptcy, debts and various depressive disorders. At this moment, there comes a moment of enlightenment and we really understand that everything, the pink glasses are removed! And now we take a fresh look at the situation and understand that this is not our business at all, we want to do completely different things. But this experience was necessary in order to descend from heaven to earth and soberly assess the situation in order to achieve success in your favorite business.
What can you feel when you are confident in your illusion, but something went wrong? Feeling of emptiness, despondency, despair, depression. Because it seems to you that everything is not fair, it should not be so, and you did everything right. But no, illusions, my friends, are merciless. Our brain creates them in order not to think about the bad - it is so beneficial for him. And we, absorbed and dissolved by our illusion, follow it without looking back and with full confidence in success. And then we get a return that was not part of our plans at all. It looks like the famous phrase “expectation and reality”.
This is what illusions do to us, friends. Be careful with them and do not trust 100%. One must be able to distinguish between illusion and dream. You may want to live in London and do everything possible to make this goal a reality. But you can think and be sure that in a year you will live in London by some miracle - this is already an illusion. Be vigilant and do not fall for the tricks of our brain.
I wish everyone to achieve their goals and live where you want! Be happy.