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The path to self-realization

Self-realization is the realization of a person’s potential. Aristotle wrote that happiness is achievable through the realization of its potential capabilities. Wikipedia I did not just touch on this topic, since all the diseases of the 21st century are the lack of self-realization. This means only one thing - dissatisfaction, throwing, searching for oneself, not knowing what to do, not understanding how to continue. And dissatisfaction with your needs leads to stress and neurosis. Well, if neurosis, then the body suffers. Chain: lack of self-realization - depression - neurosis - disease. At this stage, the help of psychologists and psychotherapists is already required. It is important not to bring the situation to a neurosis, but if this stage already has a place to be, then accept everything as experience, nothing will be given to us just like that - everything makes sense. I divide humanity into 2 categories: who thinks about self-realization, and who has no time to think about it.
Image by Gerd Altmann  from Pixabay
Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

Self-realization is the realization of a person’s potential. Aristotle wrote that happiness is achievable through the realization of its potential capabilities. Wikipedia

I did not just touch on this topic, since all the diseases of the 21st century are the lack of self-realization. This means only one thing - dissatisfaction, throwing, searching for oneself, not knowing what to do, not understanding how to continue. And dissatisfaction with your needs leads to stress and neurosis. Well, if neurosis, then the body suffers. Chain: lack of self-realization - depression - neurosis - disease. At this stage, the help of psychologists and psychotherapists is already required. It is important not to bring the situation to a neurosis, but if this stage already has a place to be, then accept everything as experience, nothing will be given to us just like that - everything makes sense.

Image by Tiyo Prasetyo  from Pixabay
Image by Tiyo Prasetyo from Pixabay

I divide humanity into 2 categories: who thinks about self-realization, and who has no time to think about it.

  • Those who have no time do not think. Many live almost like robots, especially in megacities. You need to leave for work in 2 hours so as not to get stuck in traffic, so you need to get up at 6 in the morning. Similarly, returning from work, time and energy remain only for a shower and dinner - and so every day. And on weekends, most rest, relaxing with alcohol. Is it at such a pace that a person can discern his talents and abilities?
  • And those who think about it day after day, are tormented by thoughts, are in search of themselves, try something new and so on, can just get to the bottom of the truth and understand what they need to do and start to do it. Having passed the path of torment, depression and neurosis, you can get a reward: self-realization - satisfaction - joy - harmony. Not everyone goes this way, someone from early childhood knows who he wants to be. Someone just decided to take a picture, people liked the work and this response indicated the work of a lifetime, now a photographer. Everything has its time, as I said, we are all different and unique, each of us.

Sometimes you need to arrange a reboot for yourself in order to understand whether you are moving in the right direction.

Signs of unrealized person:

low self-esteem, self-digging, anger, resentment, envy, depression.

Signs of self-realization:

self-confidence, setting goals, moving forward, reaching heights, recognition, enjoying life.

The problem of unrealization affects not only the younger generation, but also those over 50. Therefore, I want everyone in this world to know what it means to be realized and recognized, so if you read this article, then you are on the right track. I offer you only what has been tested by experience.

The path to self-realization

  1. To analyze today, to understand what are not satisfied. Write down. I am sure that all points will be reduced to one thing - the lack of self-realization.
  2. Ask a question and wait for an answer to it, it can come from different sources. Somewhere you heard or saw something, and you responded.
  3. Remember what others told you, pointing to your talents, that you are doing well, in their opinion. Maybe you cook well or get along well with children, for example. Remember what you loved doing in childhood. Write down.
  4. Understand which of the above you most like to do. Listen to your intuition. Write out. Here I want to clarify something. Not everyone knows about their talents, they are revealed over time. I love this saying “everything has its time”, I need to try, for this we are here to study, to learn the world, to gain experience.
  5. Ask yourself the question “what do I love and can do with my soul without waiting for payment for this?” - here it may take some time to think. Write down.
  6. If none of the points above fits, think about what you do every day and you like it? For example, every day you find something unique on the Internet and you like to do it. This is also a talent. Try to gradually understand how this can be applied in practice. I gave one of many examples.
  7. Well, if it doesn’t work at all, then you can study yourself using the Human Design system, preferably with a certified analyst.

Believe me, if you really love your job, then this will certainly bear fruit.

We can conclude that to be realized is to find the work of your whole life, from which you get tremendous pleasure, a work that brings benefit and joy to society. And when this happens, then money and success will follow.

The Lord knows to whom, what, how much and when to give. Just trust him.

I told you a lot and pointed out a path, following which you can understand your talents and realize yourself. I wish everyone to find their work of life and be realized, rejoice and enjoy life. I love everyone, be happy!