"We had everything like in the movies: romantic dates, gifts, conversations until the morning. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I don't think he wants to. Our relationship is not moving anywhere" - how often I hear such phrases from women.
However, very beautiful, intelligent, well-groomed women who can not complain about the lack of male attention. The only reason they "desperately unlucky".
In this article we will talk about why a man is in no hurry to lead you to the Registrar.
For some reason in our society it is considered that marriage is necessary only to the woman. Have you heard the catchphrases of "hooking up with a man" and "marrying him"? Many sofa experts believe that marriage is not necessary for a man.
This is partly dictated by our upbringing. Remember your childhood: while the boys were running, chasing the yard dog, you, my dear, played with other girls in the daughter-mother and in the wedding.
It turns out that girls from childhood are preparing for the fact that they just need to become a wife, mother, well, at worst, a mistress.
Starting almost from the first class, girlfriends discuss what dress will be chosen for "this very day", what Banquet will be arranged, which of their classmates will be invited to the role of a witness.
There is no such emphasis on marriage in the education of boys, so there is a popular opinion that a man does not need marriage. Of course, this is not so, and further I will tell, where are rising its feet have this misconceptions.
"What he wants from me": the real needs of men
* Recognition of his achievements. Let's be honest: you need to believe in a man, then he begins to feel more confident and bring home more, more. It's the truth. Not only women are looking for "reliable rear", men too, but they have it about another.
* A man should always know that you appreciate him, support his decisions and, even more so, do not look around, then to say: "and Seryozha work better/newer car/apartment more."And then your man decides that he and his wife more beautiful, it is necessary to you?
* A man always ready “on exploits” sake of you. Much has been written about this need of men. Honey, remember the stories: princes defeated dragons, sailed far away, fought. Why? Because that's what inspired Princess: helpless (not to be confused with weakness), tender and of course beautiful.
* A modern man in psyche, too," Prince " — him want to commit great Affairs, and he searching for, let unconsciously, inspiration for every his step.
• Sexual satisfaction. No one says that sex is at the forefront of marriage, but you can not ignore this area of life.
* Think about it itself, why a man most often "goes on leftist"? Because he doesn't enjoy it in bed.I'm not talking about erotic aerobics, honey. We are talking about the global needs of men-to give, and women-to take. You feel good with him, including in bed. It's just nice, and it raises your self-esteem.
* Arranged life. I'm not asking you to become a "dishwasher, not a woman," but it's hard to argue with that. When a man comes home tired and angry, and in the apartment hovers a delicate aroma of borscht and homemade cakes, he instantly understands: here is my home.
TOP-5 types of men to wait for pointless
"It's not about you, it's about me," that phrase is sure to make your eye twitch. You think, " what a stupid excuse! Can't you tell the truth?"My dear, sometimes that phrase is true!
There are some types of men who simply can not get married, they have no desire and understanding why marriage is needed. You want happily ever after? Pay attention to such "heroes". There's certainly nothing to catch with them.
* Married. "He is already married, could leave his faithful and marry me," - so often think women who are in the status of a mistress. This is, of course, a combo: to think that a man who once found his way to the registry office, will constantly drive there all in a row.
* Honey, I'll upset you, married people almost never leave the family. It's warm, cozy and well fed.
You spend sleepless nights sitting with him in the kitchen and listening to complaints that the wife is "bad", that divorce is expensive and long.As one politician said: "Enough is enough!"Girls, be reconciled, the married man will not take you in marriage and everything will not be so brightly and joyfully as you imagined to yourself. There are exceptions, but we will not discuss this now.
• Tyrant. This man is likely to immediately take you in his arms and drag. Where? Yes, where he himself wants, maybe in the registry office — for the tyrant your opinion does not matter. This is the type of men who, after the first date, write to the messenger every second with the words "ow"," where did you go","why don't you answer me for a minute."
* For them marriage — an ideal form of control, so often they themselves display initiative with marriage, but my you advice: not worth plunge into maelstrom of love with head.
In this pool of Tyrants are found, and even disrespect, abuse and sometimes even beatings.
* Cat-bummer. Usually such a man is looking for a companion some strong and independent woman. What for? Wants his weak and dependent ego to sit on her neck.
• For "a seal" there is one unshakable ideal women-his mother.
He is even ready to dance a little ritual dances around his chosen one: to seek her, to give flowers, to Serenade under the window, but it's all done with one purpose — to lull your distrust of men and sit on your neck, dangling legs."Seal" does not want to be a Worthy man, he is OK.
* Alain Delon. Oh, that macho guy always looks 100%. He's charming and handsome and... Did I mention he's handsome? Because such a man has no other achievements.
* He will live in your apartment, which you, dear, and even buy yourself with your money. And she'll eat your dinner elegantly.
"Alain Delon" will roll your eyes so beautifully when you say: "Vasya, maybe you'll finally find a job/fix the faucet/pick up the child from school." Wow, rock!
* Pickup master. Well, men like that just don't get married. Point. They know how to seduce, they can lure a woman into their nets, hanging noodles on her ears. The purpose of the hero-lover one to get the lady in bed, and then brag about it to friends charge.
• If you need pickup-master can play good boy to run after you, calling in the movies, but then abruptly disappears.
He likes games of "black and white", "far-near", and women are often led to such a man.Why? It is unusual, special, not banal. Only consider: such do not take in marriage.
Among all this " zoo " separately is worth He. He's not trying to win someone's love, not playing with you, not tyrannizing and whining.
A normal man is waiting for a Normal woman: with a healthy self-esteem, with an understanding of the ideas of marriage. The one who would be his friend, his wife, his mistress, the mother of his children. For such a woman, he is ready to do anything, including take her in his arms and carry to the registry office.
"Normal" companion is not a suitor, but caring: it is important for him that the woman next to him was comfortable and good, but these games of conquest — not his chip. He's willing to give his time, his love, his financial support.
Only here is, costly, admit it, you often "get carried away" on such heroes?