Finding a destination is one of the main issues in human life. And his conscious life, for that matter, it is from him that we must begin. Because it is “lucky” in this life for those who understand why he tramples on the earth. In general, big meanings are big victories and achievements.
For example, I heard about one unique person that he sleeps 3 hours a day, and is fresh, and alert, and active. I’m telling the person who told me about this man that he apparently knows why he works so hard. The interlocutor replies: “Yes, he knows that what he does can change a lot in people's lives, it inspires him.”
Here they are, Meanings with a capital letter, what they do to us. Even nature adapts to them.
Everyone knows that a person can get out or live long, despite the disease, if he knows why he needs to live. And such cases are not uncommon.
Psychologist and psychiatrist Viktor Frankl wrote a lot about the meaning of life, in particular: "a person seeks to make sense and feels frustration or vacuum if this desire remains unfulfilled."
(Victor Frankl was a prisoner of the concentration camp, he lost his wife and parents there. He wrote that those who made sense to survive this torment survived in the concentration camp).
What determines the realization of our destiny may fall into the Shadow
The inability to determine the meaning of life, it is often associated with the fact that those qualities in us that are powerful, which would help us turn mountains, are hidden in our Shadow, or even not just in Shadow, but in Darkness. And under no circumstances do we have the right to pull them out.
For example, a young man has a part that is powerful, strong, full of energy, he could become an outstanding politician, businessman, etc., but he does not allow her to manifest, since this part is also associated with aggression and violence.
And now, having carefully hidden this part in Darkness, he remains face to face with a tasteless life, where nothing pleases him: firstly, it is not interesting (because in order to fill your life with activity, you need energy, and it left with energetic part in the Darkness), and secondly, powerlessness appears before life. There is no energetic strong part - you become a kitten, which itself requires protection.
The same thing happens with a young beautiful woman who is suddenly afraid of her attractiveness, her inner strength, as a result of some event, she decides to be “right”, not standing out, etc. Energy, a taste for life disappears, and here it is - depression on the threshold.
And the teenagers who wanted to play to become football players, but went to economists, lawyers and programmers? A familiar story, isn't it?
If a person comes to me who says "" I don’t know what to do in life, "I first look at what part of himself at which moment he buried, not allowing it to appear in the proper amount.
Well, then comes the work of getting to know this part, accepting this part, developing this part.
Gradually, it comes to the realization that those gifts, abilities, qualities that are given to us are given for a reason. These are precisely the tools that will be used to realize the mission, to understand the meaning of life.
The meaning of life is how beautiful it sounds when you understand what it is about)). And how dreary if it sounds like empty words.
I wish you to hear these words as you choose.