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You look and wonder: how much irritation and resentment fits on a small smartphone screen! Chat was created to facilitate and accelerate communication, and here it is really easier to offend someone or allow tactlessness. As for speed, we get an answer, not really plainly finished typing your message. "BUT! It turns out that it wasn’t for me ... ”But not all is lost, we all still have a chance to become pleasant and subtle interlocutors. We offer some simple rules, which should not be done.
1. Share your doubts and thoughts
What it looks like: “You know, I thought, but in my time, to threaten a teacher with an eraser was unthinkable insolence ...”
After two or three similar phrases, the moderator (if you are lucky and he is) begins to cough into the conversation “khe-khe!”, Because of which the moderator is urgently changed, and the word “informational” is added to the name of the chat. But these measures no longer help: the conversation turned around, somehow smoothly moving from childhood memories to discussing the upcoming elections. Several people complained about the country, some about the director, some about each other. The parent who started the wave may have wanted to say something sensible, but expressed himself too vaguely.
Which is better: “I demand to remove the erasers from the 3rd“ B “!”
2. To joke (silly, much, even witty)
What does it look like:
- Dear parents! Today, a fire alarm is held at the school. Warn the children.
- Ha! And I just did not turn off the iron. Also in a fire alarm all day!
If everything goes according to the rules, and the conversation about the fate of the homeland has not yet begun, then school chat is a rather dull place. As if sitting in a lesson: official messages and dry comments. So it is tempting to shake all these nerds with schedule summaries, a little mischief. It is a pity that only you have a day off and evening meeting with friends at the bar. The rest, as usual, burn in a rush to work or hustle in traffic, so they may not appreciate the joke.
How to:
- Dear parents! Today, a fire alarm is held at the school. Warn the children.
- I forgot. Please warn Vasya Kroshkina that the anxiety is training. Otherwise, he panics. After that raffle with an iron.
3. Correct the person who asked the clarifying question or made a mistake
What does it look like:
- It is outrageous that in kobinets there are no maps of the Nashevo region or at least the Somar region.
“Not at all outrageous.” We have no kobinets! Correctly spelled - "cabinet"! And we, by the way, are not in the Samara region, but in the Tver region!
Yes, it’s better to write competently in the chat, or at least double-check it yourself. But correcting mistakes is even worse than writing illiterate. Firstly, the addressee, most likely, is not such an impenetrable Mitrofanushka, but simply dialed a message blindly, holding the phone in his pocket and listening to the speech of the department head. Secondly, if you really care about the level of education of a person, write to him in PM with a proposal of help. Thirdly, parental chat is already a hotbed of flood, and if the topic turns into the slippery path of grammar, then soon, like a forest fire, it will spread to the debate about the education and role of individuals, for example, “this little girl”.
Which is better:
- It is outrageous that in kobinets there are no maps of the Nashevo region or at least the Somar region.
- I propose to chip in the cards and hang them during the next parent meeting.
4. Helping people make the right decision.
What does it look like:
- On Helen’s school uniform is not fastened: (
- We must buy a form of organic cotton. It is always fastened, and the skin in it breathes easily. And synthetic fabrics are very harmful to the child's body.
You feel inside that you could help many people. They just don’t know how to do it right. You rush to help, tell us how to organize sharpening pencils, what books to study, and which doctor to go to. But suddenly you begin to curse. How could this happen?
Wanting to help, we often forget about the rule of good form - give advice only when you are asked about it. And you can pour discount coupons, addresses and secrets of healing only if you are an anonymous spammer and know for sure that they will not find you in the coming years.
Which is better:
- On Helen’s school uniform is not fastened: (
- You must have made a chat mistake. But suddenly: in PM I will give advice on the cotton form.
5. Use visual expression
What does it look like: "o_O_O_O YOU ARE EVERYTHING WHAT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHY ABOUT CEREALS I WILL FIND OUT AN HOUR OF NIGHT ????? !!!!!!!!!
Using capsules, serpentine gifs, and emoticons turning backwards is a bright move. Similar actions at a real parental meeting will be jumping onto the table, shouting into a megaphone, grabbing the director’s button. Emotions in parental chat are common. But it would be great to express them so that others do not represent you as a person who, through a phrase, sobs or tears his hair.
Which is better: “It's a pity that you reported about Czechs so late. Tomorrow Sergey will come without them. ”
6. Post long videos from the holidays
How it looks: “Look, what a joke. There I first shot the bouquets, and the funny begins in the 12th minute! And then on the 17th, our director will speak! ”
There may be exceptions. For example, you are an amateur operator who painstakingly shot the whole group, mounted a good movie and now gives a link to the general chat. Otherwise, it’s better not to annoy anyone. Today, children are filmed so often that in adulthood it will take them several years to view the entire Mitenke - 6! Folder. Nobody wants to spend time on someone else’s video to notice how your child flashed in the second row. In addition, for many people, the phone by default loads into memory all the beautiful voluminous files, even Easter eggs shimmering with rainbow. You need to remember this all the time, wanting to congratulate people with a postcard and a cute movie, shot in the spirit of an arthouse - a shaking camera.
Which is better: “If someone needs a director’s speech, you can contact me personally. I recorded. By hand. "
7. Send voice messages
How it looks: no way. They will not listen to you.
It’s clear that you are behind the wheel, at the controls of an airplane, or even in a nail salon. A person who decides to listen to a voice message in an office usually forgets that he connected the phone not to the headphones, but to the speaker. So everything that you think about the excursion to the factory of silicone small dolls is heard completely by strangers. And the manicurist is buzzing in the background and humming the airplane engine.
Which is better: “The Dokonayev family against a silicone factory. Vote for the Matryoshka Museum. ”
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