Marriage for love has always been a dream for most Russian girls: I want sensual happiness, love, passion, kinship of souls and "to have something to talk about." But at the same time, our compatriots excitedly discuss in Internet forums the topic: how to marry a foreigner? Or how to marry a millionaire? What are they looking for "in a distant land"?
Meeting foreigners is the best option?
Contrary to popular belief, not all girls looking for a husband abroad, dream only of finding a better life or material well-being, many want to find in foreign men what they lack in our. However, it is important to understand that in fact, foreign grooms are not always better, richer and more interesting – they are just different.
If you contact an experienced psychologist in Moscow or in your city, you will be told about the pros and cons of marriage with a foreigner, depending on the nationality of the chosen one, about the different way of life in each country, the peculiar mentality of each nation, about the problems that you may have to overcome. Maybe already at the first consultation with a psychologist, you will understand the fallacy of their views, or strengthen their desire to marry only a foreign citizen.
Peculiarities of national characters ... Marriage with a foreigner
Each nationality has its own specific features, mentality. Someone likes punctuality, and someone is absolutely careless, irresponsible, someone is stingy, and the other spends money left and right. Let us consider some approximate features of national peculiarities.
Germans are extremely punctual, do not tolerate forgetfulness and love to plan their lives for years to come.
The Italians are true romantics and this is similar to Russian men. They are cheerful, open, ready to pay your bill at the restaurant. But the most important woman for them will always be mom, not you.
The French are beautifully courted, but stingy and very fond of flirting. As a rule, irresponsible in relationships, frivolous.
For Turkish men, taking care of the family is the main thing, they will not lie on the couch waiting for a call with a prestigious job offer. That is why many of our compatriots, dreaming to marry a foreigner, go to Turkey. And they know how to "talk the talk", incomparable with anyone!
The English like to follow tradition, and they do not like to be a vest for someone's tears. By the way, it is reasonable: if you are oppressed by something, it is better not to strain your loved ones, but to turn to a psychologist to get professional help.
American representatives of the stronger sex like business and capricious girls. In this country, it is also not accepted to complain even to close people on life, here everyone smiles at each other, albeit not always sincerely.
Where and how to find a husband abroad?
To marry a foreigner, today it is not necessary at any cost to go abroad. You can contact the marriage Agency or register on a specialized Dating site.
Starting viewing of questionnaires and photos, remember that any person will not spread on the Internet information on the weaknesses and shortcomings. In the vast majority of cases, all seek to embellish themselves. Therefore, do not trust the written – it is better to get as much real data about the foreigner, for whom you may decide to marry.
One way to do that is to Skype. Sometimes these video Dating radically change the impression of a person, and not always for the worse.
How to interest a foreign candidate for a husband?
If you like someone from the "applicants" and you decide to continue to get acquainted with him, use the advice of a psychologist on how to marry a foreigner:
* Take an interest in his life. If he asks about you, don't worry, tell him calmly, but without details.
* Come up with topics for communication, give the man food for thought, make jokes, tell stories.
* Send him those photos in which you look great, but still look like yourself. A good idea is to exchange videos.
It is very important to know the language of the country where you are going to move, but without English just can not do! So the girls without knowing the language will be harder to get a foreign citizen!
Try to learn more about the country of your potential fiance, the laws, customs, typical traits of the stronger sex living there.
The advice of psychologists will tell you how to behave with the man you are interested in, what to do and what to avoid in order to maximize your chances of becoming a happy wife of a foreign husband.
If you already have a candidate for the groom, with whom you want to establish a close relationship, but something confuses you, use the help of a psychologist – in Moscow, every woman has this opportunity.
I wish all women to be happy and it does not matter who your chosen one is, what nationality and from what country-the main thing in a sincere desire to be loved and to love!