Our life is priceless and beautiful, in all its manifestations and expressions. Even if something does not happen as we would like and intended, it is worth remembering about it!
Very many women after divorce with husband very hard continue to to live.
Give yourself some time to grieve. This is a necessary psychological path for any person who has suffered loss and disappointment and, in order to cope with the emotional burden, yearn for the past, allow the accumulated feelings to come out.
But just do not get carried away by this process, otherwise you will suffer for the rest of your life.
Many women can not independently get out of this state and, then, they have to provide professional assistance to a family psychologist.
So how do you start living after you divorce your husband?
Help a psychologist in a divorce.
The divorce has already taken place, all the negative associated with it is over, so leave it in the past.
Give yourself some time to think about what happened and try to get used to the idea that the lost will not return.
Find the strength to conduct an internal analysis of his own life lived, especially pay attention to the mistakes made by your fault.
Keep them in mind for the future, so as not to repeat again.
Try to get used to your new life without a husband. Think about the future, make plans, because you have to live on. And not just exist, but enjoy every moment, every second!
Do not immediately look for a replacement for your ex-husband. First, it will not bring relief, because you have not yet moved away from the old relationship, from the old love.
The heart must be free for a new feeling! Second, it's not fair to a new partner. He does not know about your plans and takes everything "at face value". Wait a while until the pain and longing for the past completely go into oblivion.
Everything is exactly just how long it will take, nobody knows, it depends on the woman, her emotional and mental state.
It would be good in this life period to spend more time with family, loved ones and friends who are able to provide much-needed moral support. It is possible and even necessary to go out "in people": to exhibitions, museums, cafes or just to arrange home gatherings.
Just do not get carried away by alcohol, it only becomes worse and sadder at heart. Not bad to go to the gym or just rollerblading or Biking, skiing or sledding.
The most important thing is not to keep the problem to yourself, do not dwell on your negative and pessimistic thoughts. In any case, do not blame yourself for everything that happened, thus underestimating your own self-esteem.
In such cases, the consultation of a family psychologist will show you the necessary psychological help and support.
Fight for yourself, for your moral and physical condition, for your beauty and happiness! Everything will be as you want it!