Surely any of us asked ourselves the question-and all I have is going well in life? Is everything okay? Am I living right and what have I achieved?
Everyone at a certain stage of life should think about how to find your way in life and it's normal. If in 20 years we still do not need to sum up any result because of youth and optimism, then after 30-it's time. And by the age of 40-45, even the most irresponsible person asks such questions.
Many in this period life requires support and aid. Such assistance can be provided by an experienced psychologist who will help you analyze the situation and understand your further actions.
There are certain criteria that we focus on, for example: education, marital status, status in society and material well-being. Summing up a certain result we are either happy or upset. Here is the dissatisfaction and lived for years called a personal failure.
A person suddenly realizes that he has lagged behind something ," did not reach", did not finish, did not foresee, did not get, did not do, finally, did not find his place in life! And these " not "begin to torment and" gnaw " it, forcing more and more to be equal to these notorious criteria, driving themselves into terrible personal and psychological problems.
It is good when drawing a line, you are equal only on your own vision of your own life and, having your own criteria, and if you compare yourself with others? Someone better, smarter, richer, more successful. Envy begins to develop. The most vile and insidious feeling, making us even more convinced of their own failure and success, driving to a standstill.
How to deal with it? How not to give up? How to help yourself?
It would be nice at the beginning of the road, from his youth to plan his life, at least approximately. Ask yourself certain questions: what kind of education I want to get, where I could then work, I'm going to get married and when, will I have children and how many? Did not dream in his youth? Teach this to your children, if they are, so that it is easier then to live, knowing what you want and achieve it.
It is never too late to raise these questions, you can now test yourself, " ask around "your second"I". To make you think about what happened and what did not and why, what prevents you from making some steps, maybe you should change something, fix it, finish it, finalize it.
If you are dissatisfied with yourself, do not" gnaw "yourself, do not blame, do not scold, but do not justify yourself, just pull yourself together – and go"with a song"!
Do not focus on other people, no matter how successful, smart, rich and famous they are! Remember-man is individual! Each of us is a personality, and unique! And any of us lives only their own lives!
We have to find our purpose in life and fix something ourselves. No one will improve and make our lives more beautiful, but us.
This is a difficult task for many people, especially those who are insecure and broken by failures. On it there are experts helping to overcome problems and to change the life for the better, the skilled psychologist will always help You, will give qualified support and will inspire self-esteem. Don't fold your arms! Fight for your well-being and success!