I have a friend called yuan, she is the white Formica in my eyes.Well, it is very white, indeed very beautiful, belong to the men are interested in this, rich well, not rich but also the small rich that is the security of the big house to open the car to carry Chanel this.
Once we took the train to travel, accompanied by a big brother to play landlords, I responsible for accounting.I play card technology is too dish, so very consciously bookkeeping, of course, also belong to the need to check the kind of bookkeeping.Before playing the landlords, big brother said he lost he recognized that the girls lost when playing can not really pay.So he played ten to plate, she lost a lot, the last big brother naturally said Forget it.However, the beauty pulled out a lot of cash and bank card, said, How can not be recognized?Not because I'm a girl.The domineering and heroic, called the hero.
The beauty, 38, is single and has never been married.Of course, she never lacked a boyfriend.Always around a man worth the strength and handsome enough.She has a good family history, was a TV person, after the media company, also do all kinds of investment.
She is a typical Sagittarius, born to love freedom.At the age of 20, who wants to marry her, who wants to control her, she immediately turned around and ran.She was young and beautiful and was pursued by men.After her man, not noble son is the red two generation.Now, of course, she looks like she's in her 20s.
At the age of 30, her parents began to rush her.After all, the condition of the girl is better, will always be on the age of this can be a magic spell.So, she began to talk about stable love, began to give up the whole forest because of a tree.She began to make a little woman.She had given up her job for the man she loved,which was her career's most up-and-comer.
However, what is the result, the result is that she sacrificed herself, to cater to to please go to Will, the last is deeply hurt, is lost, is a betrayal, is chicken ribs.
The 30-year-old, who has two boyfriends, said: 'I've been in a relationship for a long time, I've been in a relationship for a long time, I've been in a relationship for a long time, I've been in a relationship for a long time.Time is so brush flow, until now 38.
She was also forced by her parents, but the parents finally tired, finally as long as the parents forced marriage, she is not happy, not even home for the New Year.Eventually, the parents really stopped pushing her to get married.But all the girlfriends around her are divorced, she said.As the master said, early marriage will be divorced.
She belongs to a woman who is both material and spiritual.Yes, a man with money, if he can't show her the spirit, she can't.'If I was vain about money, it would be easy,' she said.
She can't accept that men are too old and ugly.So, her high requirements Ah, belonging to the rich have good taste young and Handsome, Her Own personality, so not late marriage.
She cares too much about the spirit.But poor men certainly can not get into the eyes of law.We all work hard to make money, all know that money is a skill.A man who can't make money is certainly failing.Even if you look handsome again when the meal to buy a single buckle cable, that suddenly no temperament is not macho.Men live with a sense of self-confidence and confidence.So, a man in the spirit can not let her appreciate is certainly not.
'Now I realise that I can't live like I used to, I still have to be myself,' she said.I will never turn around a man, I will never love a man in all its glory.
I say, love to seven points on it.
She smiled: perhaps, only five full.
Now, after learning that she returned to the single, her side of the chase more than five men, some chase particularly tight to her particularly good, but also careful care of the desire to be positive quality boys, temperament taste is very good.
I say, you can also consider a merit admission.
'I think it's a good thing now,' she said.Each have their own space and time, think of each other together.Then go back to the home.Have your own friends, have your own career, have your own circle.Now just a child.Men, not important, there is a mutual help to grow old together with a man of course, no that does not matter, anyway, want a man will never be missing.
The new boyfriend is looking forward to a positive day, in fact, the boy is very good and temperament, once also belong to the type of woman to see the fight.But when I met her, she was obviously restrained.Began to think about buying her breakfast, began to design her future travel plans, began to carefully ask her why she was not sleeping, for fear of being disliked and hate.
I don't like people asking me what I'm doing. Where Are you and who are you going home?I have my own boundaries and principles, I know what to do and what not to do, but I don't want to give up on myself for men.I'm an insecure woman, I'm cold and I sometimes feel like I don't need a man.The boy then did everything carefully, hoping to give her a sense of security.
"All the men in the world are cheap.The colder you are, the more he wants to melt you.The more you don't tell him where he is, the more he cares about your whereabouts.Even if you're sleeping with him, it makes him feel as if he's just subjugating your body and not as much of your heart.Why don't you just go to bed?When the one-night stand when ordinary friends can, when each other's body needs to reconcile the yin and Yang.”
In the middle of the night in Beijing, after a high temperature, it was raining heavily. we were waiting for the rain to stop, and the English song in the car was very lyrical.
How, this is love cheats.Obviously, today's beauty with this trick in love invincible.
Usually, after a person is hurt emotionally, there are three manifestations：
The first, refuse to love, and from then on Love is incompetent.There are many of these.Many first love hurt or hurt in love, will close the heart, refused to love.Perhaps as long as the game world do not love, perhaps simply alone.
The second, do not refuse love, go to love wisely, love to three or five points or seven full.This is a beautiful woman like love.To love a man with reason, never to love a man with all his might.This kind of love, as if you and a person kiss, you always open the eyes closed, for fear that someone will hurt you, you ready to escape the mentality.
The Third Kind, like a baby, is devoted entirely to love.This is usually the state of first love.Only a small number of people can survive an injury.
I approve of the sentence on the internet: "only those who are very powerful and very intelligent dare to love and enjoy love as a baby, because they know that nothing can hurt them, because the body has grown soft armor, because the purpose of life is not to fight and kill, fight and grab, but through those accumulation and efforts, so that”
Obviously, the first is undesirable, too ostrich, a waste of time and life.Because love will light life, otherwise too pale.
The second is a two-pronged approach to security.A lot of people fall into this category.
The third, obviously, is the best.Even if a lot of injuries, but still can maintain the heart of a son, with vigor and vitality, devoted all their hearts to love, even if the last failure, the last injury, but there is a strong immune mechanism and healing and self-healing ability.How admirable is this kind of person!
So, what kind of love do you belong to after you've been hurt?Can you still love someone all you want?