The time hasty, in June, the hot summer in the beautiful campus gradually filled with sad atmosphere, is a year of parting.
Graduation is imminent, for many college students, it is also a break-up season.Four years ago, with a vision and hope to enter the campus, here to study, life, here also meet, mutual understanding, common care of the bud of love, to see it grow, such as flowers bloom, but in this process can not help but confused, growing love on campus, four years later can successfully graduate?
Yesterday also smiled like flowers, today tears eyes, tomorrow will go……
Julie's point.：
Near graduation, college students and couples not only have to face the problem of career choice,but also to decide to love in the end, or let it go with the wind, but no matter what the choice is, let them have the pressure and sadness in the invisible.College students couple graduation break up rate as high as 80%, this data confirms, there are a lot of people just ignorant that hold the hand, you can embrace all the love, but never considered the future, but do not know love is not out of real life, but with the life of the same blood.
In the early days of love, many people did not consider the existence of problems in this relationship, will not consider two values, personality, family, habits and other compatibility issues, such as life in the ivory tower, once out of this beautiful and illusory world, the reality of the problem came, so that they feel helpless, lost, break up became a ready-made
We are helpless " bifen clan”
Xiaodong is a fresh graduate of a university in Beijing. his girlfriend Xiaoyu is his classmate.Near graduation, the two are again facing the problem of breaking up, Xiaodong has signed a contract with an IT company, after graduation to go to work, and Xiaoyu is a Southerner, the family has found a stable job for her, urging her to return home after graduation.Xiaoyu always is to stay on the issue of hesitation, on the one hand, no less than love for four years of the small winter, on the other hand, do not want to give up a stable job, in the students have to consider the way out of graduation, faced with the dilemma of choice, Xiaoyu can only sigh, cry, but eventually can
Xiao Dong also repeatedly persuaded Xiao Yu, whether she chose to go or stay, he will respect her decision, but he also hope that Xiao Yu stay in Beijing, even if the bitter and difficult, as long as they love each other, efforts will not nothing.Her parents immediately rushed to Beijing, good-natured stakes, told her to live alone difficult, how much pressure, her parents even found a small Winter, told him already arranged for a blind date in his hometown, the other condition is excellent, he just graduated from the hair than the head boy.
Xiaodong in Xiaoyu's parents left, about Xiaoyu meet, the two sat in the campus overnight, talked about the night, cried the night, and then finally, Xiaoyu after taking into account the pressure of reality, or chose to break up, become a member of the”bi sub-family", four years of feelings finally wither.
How far can our love go?
Xiao Yang and Jia Jia is also a couple of graduates of a university in Beijing, seeing the sad process of graduation of many senior sisters, the two were determined to untie the Curse of”BI points", although the economic conditions of both families are very generous, but spare time or began to work, on the one hand in order to accumulate socialThe pressure of learning, the bitterness of working, so that the two people tired, but never so blame each other, but more firm two people hold hands all the way down the determination.
On the eve of graduation, the family also told them to do all kinds of real life pressure, so that their respective home development, Xiaoyang and Jia Jia early in Beijing early contact internship units, adhere to stay together after graduation in Beijing development, both parents think they are too immature, consider things not comprehensive, Xiaoyang and Jia Jia Jia invited both parents toXiao Yang and Jia Jia told parents, they are not impulsive, but in the sophomore had a good plan, they have work experience, also have a small amount of savings, and even considered the future of the two may cause problems because of the change of environment, but they will not regret, this is a process of growth, not because there may be leave it to the future to comment.
Finally, Xiao Yang and Jia Jia's parents finally assured that they agreed and supported their stay in Beijing after graduation.
Julie's point.：
College, love is the land, but this land bred most of the love can only blossom, see it bud, bloom, withered, but it is difficult to harvest the fruit.The reason for the breakup of Xiaodong and Xiaoyu is only a part of the reality factor, which seems helpless, but it is not so.the differences between the two people in terms of their outlook on life, sense of responsibility, personality and other dimensions lead to the two people have different expectations for the future and different worries.This is the basis of emotional stability, especially at the crossroads of life, the best measure of the two lovers of the relationship is strong, their love flowers can be the result.At the same time, look at the small ocean and Allison, two people have the same vision and expectations for a common future, no matter how difficult, they always heart to heart, work together to overcome the difficulties.They have a high compatibility, before graduation break up problems, they have been prepared, not to escape reality, but to face, work together to solve problems, grow together.
University, is the most brilliant time of life, but also the most passionate era.Young lovers love each other, mutual feelings, originally came for love, as to whether eventually become a mutual life partner, indeed, there are a lot of practical conditions to decide the mutual choice.But at the same time, because of this age of love irrational attitude, therefore, graduation and break up the situation has become understandable phenomenon.
Growing, is a continuous process of abandonment and Harvest, Love is also part of the growth process, in this process, will encounter a variety of problems, how to find a balance between homes and get, is the problem of today's graduates to consider, is to hold hands, or let go, no one can give an exact answer, only by themselves to decide.Choose to hold hands, we must have the courage to face the pressure of life;choose to let go, we must simply completely, do not add to each other to mourn.No matter what the final choice is, just be willing to have no regrets, because you are already growing.
Graduation Bell has sounded, gather and scatter sometimes, sadness sometimes, our love, or graduation, or become a memory of a blue worry, scattered foggy sadness, but also a ray of sunshine, tomorrow is still brilliant, still wonderful!