Many men complain that they work hard every day in order to give women better housing and living. However, women are often dissatisfied, always complaining about small things, and even complaining that you pay more attention to work than to them: if there is no love, what is the money?
This is precisely because of the different scoring standards for men and women. Men don't understand that women treat the big things and the small things the same. They are all one point. Men work harder, women only give one point!
If a man understands a woman's scoring system, they can easily score high points by doing small things. The little things that men can easily score are:
1. Embrace your wife, especially when she is stressed or sad and sad, then she will give you a high score without hesitation! This trick is unsatisfactory, and more good! Never too much!
But unfortunately this seems to be very difficult for Chinese men. They don't understand that this is the "little thing" that can get the highest score! When you hug her, she seems to be more sad, this is normal, because she has not yet vented negative feelings.
2, listen to his wife's "Rosie", do not rush to give any answer. Just listen, send out some "hmm", "yes" or sympathy is enough! If she asks your opinion further, you can give her serious advice.
3, if you do not cook, then when your wife is very tired or sick, take the initiative to make a meal, even if it is a bowl of instant noodles.
4, if you do not wash the dishes, then when your wife is very tired or sick, take the initiative to wash the bowl.
5, if you do not wash clothes, then when your wife is very tired or sick, take the initiative to wash clothes.
6, timely repair of broken lights, furniture, electrical appliances, etc.
7. Before going out or going home, ask what you need to bring something by the way.
8. Clean up the garbage, the courtyard and the snow.
9. If you can't go home on time, remember to call home and tell her not to worry, just some traffic jams or you have to work overtime.
10. If you are on a business trip, remember to tell her the phone number of the hotel you are staying in, so that she can find you when she needs it.
11, often, without losing the opportunity to say "I love you".
12, when watching TV, staring at her. Very simple, but very effective!
13. Tell her that you have some questions to think about, you need time to be alone, and she doesn't worry.
14, praise her strengths, such as appearance, temperament, clothing, new hair, new meals, etc., even if you think it is a matter of clarity, needless to say.
15. Help her lift heavy loads when shopping or traveling.
16. Thanks to her for doing small things for you and the family, even if you think the family is still so polite.
17, buy some small gifts, such as chocolate, flowers, perfume, her favorite snacks, give her a surprise, create a romantic atmosphere.
18, when speaking, commenting on her eyes, can hold her hand with her hand.
19, when crossing the road or walking, take her hand.
20, go to bed with her at the same time.
If a man can often do these "little things", you are definitely a super lover in the eyes of your wife. The effect of these little things is absolutely amazing.