Today we’ll talk about responsibility, about the importance of this feeling.
RESPONSIBILITY means to report on your actions, actions and be responsible for their possible consequences or result.
How often do we take responsibility?
Once I had a conversation with a very interesting woman, a business woman. I knew her entire history of take-off and the difficulties she had to face, especially in the 90s. Now it is at the top, this is the place when the main goals are achieved and the business works without the participation of the owner. And I asked her a question:
- “What do you feel now, having such a scale?” (I’m always interested in understanding people, how they feel, how they react). And I was interested to know what people who have achieved success and, in my opinion, are happy can feel. But her answer made me think. She said:
- “I feel only a huge responsibility ...” - and I felt a little sad from the fact that I did not feel a note of joy. And such important theses always remain in my head. Now I’m moving a little away from the topic, but this is only because I want to share something important, in my opinion. I always remember some fragments of conversations in pictures. This happens when the conversation and emotions of this conversation are important. Even when I read a book, I always imagine what the author is talking about at the moment. And this, I want to tell you, trains the imagination well, namely visualization.
From this story, I made one important conclusion: the more responsibility, the more likely it is to succeed, and accordingly increase your income.
I want to share with you one secret when passing an interview for a vacancy. You may encounter closed questions that will help reveal your area of responsibility. Managers prefer to hire staff who are not afraid to take responsibility in making any decisions.
You can be dissatisfied with your work, pay, say that everything is unfair and nothing happens. Just try to ask yourself questions and answer them:
- What responsibility do you bear at your place of work?
- And what responsibility can you add to your work to earn more?
- What post can you take if responsibility is added?
- Are you afraid of responsibility and therefore decide to leave everything as is or make a decision to change your life?
Everything that you have or don't have depends on your answer. You can follow the movie “Secret” and hang a prominent poster with a suitcase of 1,000,000 dollars and wait for them to “fall”. Or you can just act, do something. And in this case, the chances of success are much greater.
Creating a family, having children is also a responsibility. Approaching an irresponsible marriage decision can lead to an unhappy marriage. If you treat children irresponsibly, they will grow up and will also be irresponsible towards you.
Responsibility is everywhere: in life, in life, in the family, in work. The more you are ready to be responsible for everything, the more successful and happy your life will be.
Even animals are responsible for their cubs, which need to be fed, trained, educated and protected from dangers. This is very well shown in the BBC series Camera-Spy in the Pack. You will be very surprised if you watch these films, how responsible animals are.
So, my dears, now it has become more or less clear how we ourselves influence the quality of life, placing responsibility on our shoulders: for some they are fragile, while for others they are strong, it does not matter. In any case, it is necessary to assign specific areas of responsibility to yourself, but given the characteristics of your character and nature, so as not to harm your health. Otherwise, you can burn out emotionally and earn chronic fatigue syndrome. There must be balance in everything - this is the law of nature.
I love everyone, be happy and successful!