Someone asks this question at the age of 16, and someone at 50. But once, almost everyone who has not found their calling comes the moment when he thinks:
Why am I not getting satisfaction from what I am doing?
What am I doing wrong?
How to find your destination?
Take a look around. Many people sit on an unloved job, doing something that they don't like at all.
The worst thing is that most of them think that this is normal, it cannot be otherwise.
Remember what you dreamed of as a child. Perhaps you wanted to perform on a large stage or treat animals; Become a lawyer and protect the innocent or build houses.
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I recommend reading this article to the end for those who have repeatedly asked themselves questions:
How to become happy and change your life even if you are for ...?
How to find yourself and your calling?
What to do so that work brings joy?
And if you think that you are in your place, but you hate Mondays, pull yourself out of bed in the morning, feel emotional and physical decline after work, then think about whether you are lying to the main person in your life - yourself.
Many motivators, life coaches, trainers and other inspirers constantly say big words about how important it is to do what you like, in other words, to realize yourself.
They know how to find themselves and their calling in life. Everyone shares a methodology for how to do this. There are hundreds of search options. But in fact, all of these techniques contain one simple and incredibly cool exercise, which I will share with you in this article.
Prepare a pen and sheets of paper. Take time so that no one distracts you. Immerse yourself in the process. Today we will answer the question: how to find ourselves and our destiny?
Why is it important to find your calling?
We came to this world to be happy. Unfortunately, very often we forget about it. We work where we feel bad (often not only emotionally, but even physically), do something that the soul doesn’t lie at all, curse the whole world for the fact that others have everything and you don’t.
And the worst thing is that many people think that it cannot be otherwise. So life has developed. After all, no one taught us how to find ourselves. We are like logs (forgive me for such a comparison) floating on the river of life in anticipation that we will be beaten to some shore. We completely submit to the situation and lose control of our lives. We humble ourselves ...
When you are doing something that brings you pleasure and happiness, then by the law of attraction you attract even greater happiness into your life. When you hate your work with all the fibers of your soul, you accordingly attract negativity, disappointment, pain, lack of money into your life.
You become happier when you do what you are good at, what you can do with ease and joy, with all your heart. In other words, when you found yourself and your destiny.
If you observe people who have found their calling, then the business in which they feel comfortable, work with joy, then in other areas of life, everything starts to get better for them. Money comes easily, relationships with people add up nicely, and so on. That's because they become happy, because they found and realized themselves.
I am glad that you are interested in the question: how to find your calling. So you have already taken the first right step to change your life.
Why is it so hard to find your calling?
We live in a time when information flows in an endless stream from all sides. Television, radio, internet with tons of videos, posts, articles.
Successful people share their ideal lifestyle, bloggers talk about how much they earn on their favorite business. Endless advertisements for courses, schools, workshops.
On the one hand, it’s wonderful, there is so much choice. But on the other - in this you can easily get lost. And it’s even harder to understand what you want. What exactly is your calling.
With such a huge amount of information, there is an “imposition” of opinions and standards. Many begin to do what other people have achieved success. They try to adapt to someone else's life, copying it.
But they still don’t get pleasure. Why?
Because we are all different, and one person may simply not be suitable for what works perfectly for another. It is important to remember that we are all individual and it is necessary to listen to our heart, and not to external sources.
How to find your calling and yourself. Practical exercise
Take a pen and notebook or a few sheets. I will share with you a fairly simple practice. She will help you answer the question: how to find your calling?
Your task is to quickly answer the questions that I will give below.
It is very important to answer questions honestly and voluminously. The more information you write, the better. Thus, it will be easier for you to determine your interests and desires.
I advise you to complete the task in writing, and not orally.
I promise you will discover a lot of new in yourself, a lot of awareness will come when you complete this exercise.
I divided all the questions into three categories:
Past
Future
Emotions
So let's go.
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