Briefly about the internal beliefs that, if you have and realize it, you can feel that you have done something worthy in this area of life.
The rules of a happy family. Spouses.
1) No matter what happens, we can always discuss it and find a solution.
2) Whatever happens outside, we will never stand against each other, but always back to back, or hugging each other.
3) We can be silent with each other or talk - we feel good in both cases.
4) We do not shoulder each other the problems that only one of us is predetermined to solve. But we do not refuse the necessary support to each other in these cases.
5) Our life together is a life-long adventure. Whether it was, or still will be. If anything, see paragraphs above.
The rules of a happy family. We and the children.
1) My child, no matter what you do, you will remain the best and most beloved for me, and no matter what I do, I will remain the best and most beloved for you.
2) I hug, kiss you, my dear child, because it makes me feel very, very good (and not just because it will be better for you - to hug and kiss you more, because so much is being written and said about this now).
3) I can make mistakes, and I forgive myself, and you forgive me. You make mistakes, and I forgive you, and you forgive yourself.
If we make mistakes, we think what can be done, what the lesson consists of, and we change, rather than pull the tail of guilt instead of changes.
4) I realize that you are looking at my life and absorbing patterns of my behavior. Well, this is an interesting task: to show you how to be happy in this life. I will try to make myself happy and show you how.
5) I will protect you from adversity whenever you want. Simply. Not judging. Fully accepting. I decided so.
6) Our life together is an adventure that lasts a lifetime. Whether it was, or still will be. If anything, see paragraphs above.