Stay positive amid the negative things is not easy. Our tendency to go with the flow. If the atmosphere around us with our positive go positive, for example in the middle of the recitation. If the atmosphere around us is negative then we go negative, for example in the sophist. Need a deep understanding that personal we can be resilient even in the negative atmosphere though.
There is a questions companion here
..........But because it is my heart so ask a question and Mr. Adhin? how do we maintain the perfect condition of us when we collide with the negative (the test/disaster) and we lived together orang2 still negative, which is difficult to talk and think openly, because they feel it is correct and all-round know everything? More over, we are in his power?
How do we mempertahnkan taste and positive energy we sir?...and also how do we recharge the spirit we are experiencing the saturation of the Pack?... Replied: How are ya? To be honest I am confused to answer it. Why? Because it is a human tendency like that. Reasonable and commonplace existence. For example like this
If we are insulted, then we tend to repay him. Or if you are not able to reply because of one thing and another, we usually pray for the ugliness to him
If we scolded, then we chimed in angrily. Most don't irritated in the liver.
If we are praised, then it is as if kitanya fly to the sky seven
If you again jaya, we tend to feel arrogant and condescending to others. Overexcited excessive
Then again a lot of debt, we tend to feel restless, dizzy, stress and others
This is natural, because we humans who have nafs or lust. The discussion of the detail about nafs I've discussed in some of the digital books in magis7. Please see-see first.
You, I even scholars even feel restless, cranky, angry and so on when the surrounding atmosphere is negative. But there are some people who continue to feel negative and partly able to neutralize it. If there is a man who always positive I'll study him. Because he is the incarnation of the angel.
True kok. Angel khan did not have a nafs, so in the negative or positive then the angel still positive, no downside at all. But we ordinary mortals who have lust on the one hand, where such passions surrounded by the intellect and the heart. This is the excess of human beings compared with other creatures.
So the question is not how to always think and feel negative but more to how to neutralize the heart (or the language of my soul) surrounded by negative things. The answer is understanding. Yes, only understanding.
The understanding I mean is understand that the negative feelings it is useless. Or useful but go to waste is bringing about other negative things present in our lives. So negative thoughts and feelings was going to invite her friends to come and come in our lives. Not other than the negative things is the nature of shaitaan, therefore, that to come is the devil and all its manifestations.
If you let the negative things feel stuck in your mind and heart then in essence you are inviting devils and more devils to follow stuck in thoughts and feelings. As a result your mind is controlled by satan, was with your heart. If it were so then not the other and not instead of, that will be present in your life is events negative.
Why? Because nothing is done shaitaan except deceive, to lull and deceive. It seems that by replying to the angry, insult, argue, berate, and so forth will reduce the burden on us, but not essentially so. Precisely it all is the door early for the presence of fire-fire negative more that will come to your life.
Therefore we have to find a map of life. The map hints that give way to us so as not to get lost. That can be a brake for the tendency of our souls to always feel and think negative. What is it? The Holy Qur'an.
Therefore, the Qur'an advises to hold the angry, always patient, sincere and gratitude even in the test that feels heavy. Because only with that is then the forerunner of a solution will be found soon. It's only then that God's help will come.
What does this mean? Look,
If we are scolded, be silent or give an explanation with the wise. If the liver feel irritated then netralkanlah to remember the will of God.
Likewise, when we are insulted
Or in a state of piling up debt
And the state of the other negative
It's not easy but it can be. This is for your own sake, not for the sake of others.