As we mentioned earlier, the pros and cons of a relationship with a married man depend directly on his intentions — if a man seeks only temporary entertainment and chose you as a companion, you can give yourself another compliment in favor of his beauty — usually in such cases they choose the most better. The second advantage is the pleasure you will get from talking with this man (the degree of pleasure depends on how far you go). That's all for now, not very much when compared with the shortcomings, about them a little later.
In a long-term relationship with a married man, in addition to the above benefits, you can find the following:
1. The ability to prove to yourself that you are better than another woman. Purely on a psychological level, we constantly compare ourselves with someone and when they make a choice in favor of us, somewhere in the depths of our souls the joy arises that I'm better and I'm cool.
2. The ability to date other men. Like it or not, as long as your man has a wife, you also have the right to go on dates and surround yourself with other men, in a different type of relationship, we usually cannot afford it.
3. You always have a reason to be offended and your image is always positive. Whatever happens in your relationship, you can always make your man guilty, because, in fact, it hurts you and there are usually a lot of advantages, because a man will try in every possible way to make amends and will do whatever you ask.
4. No need to get acquainted with his relatives. While you are in the status of a lover, you do not need to think about whether his mom likes you and how to maintain good relations with his family, for someone this is a very big plus.
5. There is always intrigue in a relationship. To meet a married man is like walking along the edge of a knife — danger and unpredictability are always present. These relationships are just created for lovers of extreme sports and diverse emotions, but sometimes you just get tired of playing this game.
To be honest: what are we going to when we meet married
All the girls who have a relationship with a married man sooner or later have a feeling of guilt. It doesn’t matter who initiated these relations, the fact remains that the family is collapsing, and you are directly involved in this. Put yourself in the place of the wife of your chosen one — would you like to be deceived, somewhere in the parallel reality your man had a love story, only without you, not the best feeling, right? Also, it is an important fact that often men do not leave the family, these relationships can end at any time and remain alone with their pain and resentment and psychologically can become even worse than before.
The main drawback of relations with a married man is that you have to share your man with another woman, and you never know what story is happening to them now, maybe this betrayal only warmed up their relationship. A man who is married to another will never be yours, he will not give you the necessary care and support, you will not be safe with him, and then what is the point of this relationship?
The most important thing to understand: if a man is married, then he does not belong to us and this is not a relationship at all, and so the affair and it will last until the man makes a choice, and in whose favor he will be a very big question.
Often, relationships with married men are brought on by girls who have very low self-esteem, they are afraid to be alone, therefore they agree at least to this option. In such a relationship, you are never insured and you can either win or be left with nothing at all. If it so happened that you fell into such a relationship, find out from your partner what his intentions are, if he cannot give you a clear answer, then it is better to leave immediately, then there is a chance of avoiding pain. And one more important point: when relations are built on deception, it is unlikely that something good will come out of them. Always remember this and love yourself!
The story of life. Irina, 26 years old.
In my relations with a married man, I felt like such a “lifesaver”, because it is always good with me, there are no problems, duties, always a holiday, lightness. And at home, as the man himself said, “forever problems.” I created a beautiful picture of an ideal relationship.
It’s also convenient. You can also afford external communication. Allow rare meetings, as I myself am very well. This is almost a true relationship, only in minimal dosage.