People are afraid of parting, afraid of hearing goodbye words or saying them. Only a few can part in a civilized manner. Most continue to torment each other with outdated relationships. Timely spoken words of farewell will save your partner from future bitter grievances and disappointments.
How to leave? It’s much easier to disappear, not answer calls, cross out your ex-lover / beloved from life than to admit to yourself and your partner that there are no more relationships like love. Unwillingness to sort things out, fear of the subsequent unknown reaction of the partner, forces either to remain silent or to leave in English. And sometimes a banal unwillingness to take responsibility and the first to start a conversation about parting. As a result, both partners are waiting and hoping that everything will somehow be decided on its own.
Some, feeling that they may be left behind, use blackmail, invent “imaginary pregnancy”, “deadly disease”, threaten to commit suicide, do everything to keep their loved one. But will such violence against a partner save your relationship? By such actions, you put an end to your relationship, and it is not surprising that the partner simply disappears from your life.
Someone, on the contrary, marries in the hope of refreshing dying feelings, rather than honestly admit that there is no future in a relationship. Will it make your life together happy?
Is it worth it to humiliate your partner, trying to keep him in any way? Parting is a natural process. It is like a “little death", after which there will be a new birth. At first, it’s painful and empty, but after you are waiting for a new relationship, and life is again painted in bright colors. And the faster you release the past and your partner, the faster you will begin to live a full life.
When parting, do not offer or do not agree to the option of "staying friends." There is no friendship between former partners, this is utopia. But this phrase gives hope to your partner and prolongs his torment.
How to leave? And not any drama. Life goes on. Be courageous and tactfully communicate your decision. Believe me, your partner has long understood everything and is mentally ready for parting. Treat people as you would like to do with you. Part civilized. We do not know what awaits us tomorrow. Perhaps in time, you will find yourself in the role of abandoned/abandoned. Respect the feelings of the other person, you loved him, does he not deserve to know about the end of the relationship from you, and not be lost in conjecture about what happened and why you disappeared.
Therefore, if you were abandoned, changed, stopped loving, or vice versa do not notice - turn your attention and your energy to yourself and look for more worthy candidates. And your thoughts to bewitch and hold a man at all costs, throw out of your pretty head.
Sometimes people make impulsive decisions to leave, for example, being in a bad mood or being carried away by someone on the side. In this case, the right decision would be to take a break and sort out yourself and your feelings for the partner. If your relationship has a future, a temporary separation will help you understand this and at the same time test each other's feelings. And if not, then after the break, the breakup will be less painful.
The main thing is to always remain human and behave accordingly. Yes, when they leave you, it’s much more painful. But this is not a reason to settle accounts with life or with the whole world. Remember, your person will never leave you. And those who leave are not yours, so is it worth spending your time on them. Resentment will be forgotten, the pain will pass, and spring will return to the heart.
For those who still think that a love spell is the way out.
Any manipulation of the feelings of another person is done to obtain certain benefits for themselves. That is, in the first place you put your desires and ambitions. This is equivalent to the fact that you buy yourself a winning ticket in the exam or first place in the competition. Without making any effort - "you are on a horse." But do you enjoy and inner satisfaction from such a victory?
Any relationship is a gift of fate. And it doesn’t matter that they were short-lived, because you were happy.
Part with thanks.
