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Crazy Love

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Crazy love is not loving, but an obsessive obsession with a partner. In psychology, this is called love addiction, the same drug, and the only cure for it is time.

Crazy love only brings pain, suffering and disappointment to both partners. This is not the high feeling that poets sing, it is a disease. This feeling comes over suddenly, and you become completely dependent on your partner.

Mad love The world freezes when it is not nearby, and when it is nearby you are seized by the fear that it can leave you. Often a person feels not only mental pain but also physical. It is better to break this connection at the beginning, otherwise, you will be drawn into this whirlpool and further, it will be more difficult to do.

Partner obsession is more inherent in the female sex. Fear of being abandoned, constant jealousy, a wild desire to always be with him, to control his life - these are signs of crazy love. If you experience only pain and suffering in a relationship, the right decision is to break off the relationship and increase your self-esteem.

At first, you are “covered” by the fact that your beloved is far away, after which you experience pain and fear when the partner is nearby. A dependent person is "obsessed" only with his feelings, other people's feelings and emotions do not excite him. He dwells in his world of illusions, where the partner belongs exclusively to him, and often he is jealous of his relatives.

True love inspires, makes a person self-confident, fills with energy, expands horizons. Crazy, on the contrary, fetters, creates complexes, burns from the inside. Crazy lovers do not trust anyone, they are constantly in a state of jealousy, anger, irritability, they are filled with fear and anxiety. Over time, this becomes chronic depression, from which it is already difficult to get out.

Crazy love is characteristic of people with low self-esteem, self-doubt, dissatisfied with their lives, they constantly lack attention and communication. For them, having a partner is an opportunity to shift responsibility for themselves and their lives onto someone. If a person does not change internally, then a change of partners will not make him happy. Such people eventually find happiness in their suffering. They are sure that there is no love without suffering. This is a big mistake. It is true love that makes a person free. And in suffering only the temper of the masochist’s spirit is tempered.

The difference between true and crazy love is a feeling of freedom next to your loved one. Trust, respect, full acceptance of each other, without the desire to change something, re-educate. If you feel good, calm, comfortable and easy next to your loved one this is true love.

In order not to get into the networks of crazy love, learn to live a full life. Your life and interests should not end with a partner. There are so many interesting and fascinating things in the world, so much that you want to learn, learn, discover, do, and in this case you can be scared only by one thought - that there would be enough life for all this.

Love is a mutual and voluntary feeling. Love is not an obligation, not a contract. People fall in love, part, marry, diverge. That's life. Love cannot be predicted, calculated, planned. And if you fall out of love - this does not mean that you were betrayed. You will not begin to wear a thing that you no longer like or eat food that is unpleasant for you and in love. It can end as suddenly as it begins. Yes, it hurts and offends when a loved one leaves. But this is not a reason to try to keep him at any cost.

Perhaps I will not tell you a secret if I say that those who played their part in it leave our life. Next, we are waiting for new meetings. And most importantly, your man will never leave you. But keeping the other side by side, you deprive yourself of the opportunity to meet with him.

Outwardly, a person under the influence of a love potion will do what you wish, but internally he will resist this. Since it will not be his desire, but yours. His inner protest will only grow. After a time when the love potion loses its effect (yes, any love spell has its validity period), a person will avenge you on violence against yourself.

Learn to love yourself, the rest will catch.