Want to know how to meet a guy? You must be tired of spending your free time alone or with your friends. And now you want to know about the magic way to meet a guy. Guessed?
Of course, I do not promise magic. But about the easiest way to secretly tell you. Promise to do as I will recommend? Then the results won't make you wait. Morning doesn't start with coffee it's often a joke on social networks. I won't hide what I am like. After I open my eyes, the first thing I do is climb my iPhone.
And now you will learn from the inside a man's view of the easiest way dating on the Internet. Let's put "on the shelves" what kind of questionnaire a girl should have in order to get acquainted with a really decent guy.
Let's start by clarifying. I, as a man, divide all male persons into three categories. Already successful, promising, losers. I consider myself to be the second. Losers are the majority and of course they have a chance to realize and succeed in life, but frankly speaking, this chance is minimal. They can explain this by "wrong upbringing", "unfair state". By the way, what category are you aimed at? I want you, dear girls and women, to understand after reading this article that dating sites are a really effective tool for getting to know a strong man or a guy, provided that you "correctly" position yourself.
Just because of the completely incorrect positioning of many women believe that online dating sites are only sponsors, concerned and inadequate, so do not consider online dating as a way to meet a guy. Is there such a thing?
1. The first and foremost is the photos. The optimal number of photos is three or four. No less and no more. Objective: to interest. In my application form and in the questionnaires of my acquaintances I conducted testing.
Three or four photos are the optimal number. Photos should be in good quality, ideally if professional. In no case should you place the photo in a swimsuit, with an open neckline, etc? Except that if your goal is one-time entertainment. Selfie (who is also a photo portrait) is not the best option.
2. Next, this is the completion of the questionnaire. The easiest thing to do, of course, to write in the style: Looking for a real man! But how many similar questionnaires do you think women have on dating sites? You need to stand out. Otherwise, you will be disappointed in online dating (as most people do). So how to fill in the form correctly? So let's start with a simple one.
Purpose of acquaintance: Friendship and communication, Relationships, Meeting Date Height: indicate your height Weight: specify your weight, can be lowered by 2-3 kg if you wish Reality: I recommend that you indicate one of the three options. Slim, skinny, athletic. Or don't specify at all. Normal is not an option. By the way, I often see how a girl with a really attractive physique indicates the Normal. This is a disadvantage to your "rating" in the eyes of a decent man. Orientation: Hetero Attitudes towards smoking: No smoking or no answer Alcohol attitude: I do not drink at all or no answer Appearance: No answer Are you in a relationship: No Education: Specify at least Higher or No Answer Language skills: specify which languages you know. Kids: All you have to do here is tell the truth. Accommodation: Separate apartment (rented or own) or no answer Sexual preferences: Never fill out this section. Leave it empty. This way, you minimize the attention to yourself from men who only need sex.
Now let's move on to the two main sections. This is "About me" and "Who I want to find".
Looking through the questionnaires of many girls you might think that they copy each other's hackneyed phrases, sayings, proverbs. Often voicing who they don't want to find and rarely pointing out in a positive way who they really want to see near them. Or just leave these fields empty. And that's 98% of the time.
Here's an example of the text in the questionnaire that I liked very much. At least it differs from 95% of other profiles on dating sites. How do you like it?
"About me" and "Who I want to find." When filling in each item, ask yourself, dear girls and women, one question: will move or push away the written worthy man to make the first step. It is not necessary to pretend to be the one that you are not. After all, all the secret becomes clear. I am for openness. Emphasize your female strengths. Be yourself, while showing yourself on the "right" side.
How does a girl meet a guy who likes if you have fulfilled all the above points:
1. Positive. You must radiate positive emotions and moods. If your questionnaire speaks of hatred for men, that you are written only "goats", then you will be attracted to them.
2. Stand out among others. Try to look for women's profiles, and you will understand what I mean. If you only focus on photos, don't be surprised why you are being written by anxious people or sponsors. Take your time and fill in the "About yourself" and "Who I want to find" fields from your heart. Fill in the text once, and then it works for you.
3. dignity. Even if you are written unpleasant things, rudeness, a man behaves low and does not sink to his level. Do not try to argue with him, to prove something to him, to educate him. It is better just to wish him luck and send him to the folder Ignored. Teaching will not speed up the attraction of love into your life.
I want you to understand. Just communications with strangers in life much less. That's why there is such a contrast. Use my recommendations and you no longer have a question about how to meet a guy. Okay?