When love leaves a relationship, it becomes very difficult to explain it to a partner. Not many people can end a relationship beautifully and correctly. Someone just disappears, someone continues to live on, torturing themselves and their partner. In time said goodbye will help to save strength and avoid future bitter disappointments.
You can be in love, you can burn passion, but if you do not trust your partner, then do not try to create a relationship. Relationships without trust are doomed. You can be sure that you love strongly and with all your heart, but if you are afraid to trust - it is not loving. If you are afraid of losing your partner, it is not loving. It's just a desire to have something or someone. It's up to you to trust or not. But ask yourself, how can you live with someone you don't trust? And to give birth and raise children? Even, just go to bed with him? Someone will be indignant and will say, in some questions, it is possible to trust, and in others, it is necessary to check or supervise. But trust cannot be partial. It is either there or it isn't.
A simple and easy way is to disappear from your partner's life, not to answer the phone. This way is chosen by weak people who are unable to have honest and open relationships. Sometimes when both partners realize that their relationship has reached a dead end, but do not dare to talk about a breakup. They are stopped by their fear of being the initiator of the breakup or their unwillingness to explain and prove something.
How and when to part correctly. In most cases, men are the first to leave. And women, not wanting to be abandoned, resort to blackmail, threats, hysterics. They are ready to do anything to keep their beloved near them. Only does it make them happy? Perhaps they will get a little delay, but the relationship will never be the same.
Sometimes love is gone, but the habit remains. And to avoid unpleasant conversations, someone dares to get married, hoping to refresh the relationship somehow. But if there is no Love, then the civil register office will not help, and there will be loneliness together. Although many people live like this, it is more like a series of Sadomaso.
Never humiliate yourself by trying to keep your partner at all costs. And those who decide to leave should not stay because of pity. Pity will eventually become angry. There is nothing wrong with parting. Treat this as the end of the next stage in your life.
It is silly to try to "stay friends". There can be no friendship between former partners. By agreeing to this option, you give hope to the one who decided to leave and thus prolong the agony of parting. No long wires and farewells. If you decide to leave - go without looking back. It is not your fault that love no longer exists. You are also not responsible for your partner's suffering. You have made your choice, and suffering is his choice.
How and when to part correctly AND no drama. Breaking off a relationship is not the end of the world yet. If you dare to talk, do it tactfully and gently, without humiliating your loved one before. Perhaps your partner has already guessed everything and is ready to part with you.
Sometimes such decisions are made spontaneously - bad mood, affair on the side. In this case, it is better to part for a while to understand their feelings. Perhaps a short pause will only strengthen your love and give a new start to your relationship. And if parting is inevitable, then a break will allow you to go through everything painlessly.
Whichever way you choose to part, it is important to present everything without aggression and insults.
If you are parted, don't despair. Think better about the new opportunities that are opening up to you. Let your loved one go, neither magic nor nicer means, blackmail, hysterics will not help you to keep him. You will only lose time and energy. The resentment will be forgotten, the wounds will heal, tears will dry up, and you will be happy again. You will have time to change your views, to make a reassessment of values, to do yourself and your self-development. And your life will change for the better, new relationships will appear. Perhaps through time, you will be grateful to your former partner for what you managed to avoid in the past and get in the future.
