Meetings, dates, first kiss, hugs, love and faith that this is the man of your dreams. But in one beautiful moment, everything is broken into small pieces from the carelessly thrown phrase of the loved one: "I'm leaving you. It's all over."
At this moment your heart stops beating and the world is painted black and white. It's as if you're falling into a bottomless pit and you're being held back by the cold, even if it's summer outside. These are the approximate feelings that every woman feels at the moment of separation. It is a pity that men do not understand this. Maybe they would be less cruel.
Why do men go away? In an impulse of despair, a woman starts crying, getting hysterical, humiliated, begging, threatening, blaming, etc. Then she starts to dig into herself, blame herself, her behavior, her character. But seldom does anyone ask their loved one the reason that led to the breakup. And the meaning, no man will not tell the truth at once. Sometimes because of fear of scandals and hysteria, and sometimes because he did not realize the true reasons for his departure from his beloved woman. Only after a while will he be able to confess, first of all, to himself, why he left.
Why do men leave? Typical reasons:
1. Unbearable character. The standard phrase "disagreeable characters", which is the cause of divorce, means a lot. Ignorance and unwillingness to hear and understand the man, scandal and hysteria on any occasion, groundless jealousy, the notorious phrase "told me my mother ...", etc. This is an important reason why most families and couples break up.
2. Inexorable desire to get married. This is especially annoying to men at the beginning of relationships. Yes, all women want to get married, that's why they get acquainted with men. But not all men get to know women for this purpose. A man thinks about marriage last when he is fully confident in his choice. And they meet more and more for a pleasant pastime and sex. They are quite satisfied with the relationship without obligation, and any conversation on the subject of "let's get married", stopped by the breaking off the relationship.
3.Comparison with exes. Constant reminder and comparison of the current partner with his exes. Some women like to compare the behavior and dignity of men, especially in bed. What kind of man will tolerate this? Especially if all comparisons are not in your favor. Men don't need to know how much you had before and whether you were good with them. A reasonable question arises, if it was so good, what are you doing here?
4. Stubbornness and arrogance. Stubbornness is the dignity of donkeys, and it is better not to argue with donkeys. At first, it may be amusing, but after that, it becomes annoying and annoying. And arrogance and arrogance do not create a positive image for anyone. When a man gets bored with persuading and begging you, he will go to another more tender, caring and loving.
5. Intimate for a gift. Men make gifts and spoil their favorite women when they want it. But if a woman starts to set the conditions for me a fur coat, a car, a diamond ring, a trip to the Maldives, and I'll give you nine and a half weeks of sex. And if not, then I will wear lips and walk around offended all day, and at night "I have a headache. Not everybody will like to feel like a credit card, not a man. Perhaps for a while, you will manage to hold out, and yet such a relationship is doomed.
6. Female adultery. This is when a woman meets with several men to decide on her choice. A man can sleep with another woman without feeling any feelings for her, only sex. Women are arranged differently. They only have sex with the man she likes. For this reason, a man cannot accept and forgive a woman's treason.
7. Sluggishness and untidiness. Being in a long-term relationship, there is a habit to a man, and the woman stops caring for herself. The man next door, the goal is achieved. Why bother? It's at work I'll dress nicely, and at home, you can wear a bigot in a manicure, in an old drunken robe and torn slippers. No wonder that after watching enough of this "beauty" at home, a man begins to walk left. A woman should always be a woman, even if she is married for 20 years.
8. Dissatisfaction and tears. Constant complaints and dissatisfaction with all and everything, no man can withstand. It is not a man's occupation to be a "vest" for a woman. To tell a man about all his alleged problems (the boss reprimanded, the girlfriend offended, pushed in transport, nail Why do men leave? Broke ...) is tantamount to slow destruction of relationships. Men prefer to act, rather than "snot" to wipe away, even the beloved one. They will gladly help you and cut in a serious situation, but definitely will not comfort you every day.
9. Men's treason. New acquaintance, mistress, friend. A woman always feels when a man begins to move away, does not hurry home, lingers at work, stops communicating and at night turns away from the wall. Why is he still with you and not with her? He probably doesn't know yet. Sooner or later he will leave. What can comfort you? Mistresses are rarely married. Having "lost his temper", a man asks for a ride back.
10. Indifference. The most unpleasant thing is when a man becomes indifferent to the woman he once loved. Lost interest, die feelings, there remains only pity and resentment, accumulated during life together. Constant scandals, changing into depression and understanding of meaningless coexistence under one roof. The best and correct way is to divorce and disperse. And the sooner, the better for both. In time each of you will be ready for a new relationship.
When things don't go well in your relationship, talk to each other, find a reason. If it doesn't work out, disperse. Do not torture each other and make each other suffer. Make room with you for new relationships and new love.
