Relationships with a married man have long been the norm these days. A man gets his benefit from such a relationship, a woman agrees to this relationship in the hope of a joint future with a rich husband. Well, with a poor man, no one will not have an affair, it is clear. Such a connection is a form of prostitution, veiled in the beautiful word "lovers".
Why prostitution? Everything is extremely simple. A man has a wife and children, i.e. a full family. And mistress, as a rule,
An illusion in a relationship with a married man makes you have sex. No movies, but they watch together or read books. And the form of payment is money, gifts, trips to the resort and much more.
The difference between the representative of the ancient profession and the mistress is that the first to treat it as a job, and the second creates an illusion of a future happy life. She begins to believe that a man will leave his wife and live with her. Why is this happening?
Married man's position
There's a family, a wife, and kids. Yes, the wife is not so young and sexy, but so close and dear, because together they have gone through a lot and studied each other well for a long time together. Common children, whom he loves and is not ready to share them in case of divorce. If a wife can still be abandoned, the children will never be abandoned. Divorce is always about problems, money costs, property sharing, time and nerves. Is it worth getting involved in this for the sake of changing one woman to another?
The best and less problematic way to find a mistress. Thus, the problem of lack of intimate life or its diversity is solved, there is a sense of need and visibility of happiness. Prostitutes are dangerous to deal with, and unpleasant illnesses or problems with their pimps can occur. On the other hand, it is possible to find a normal girl who is in love and will be ready to sit and wait for him. Good thing on the dating sites of such naive simpletons sea. Hint her that maybe someday I'll get divorced, and that's all if she counted for all eternity yours.
Position of the mistress
A young woman is looking for a meeting with an interesting, and most importantly, financially secure man. And it does not matter that he is married, there is a family, children. The main thing is to charm him, to fall in love with himself, and then he will leave his wife and move to her. Compared to his lawful wife, she is young, beautiful and sexy. It means she has every chance to take the man away from the family. Excessive arrogance and self-confidence immerses her in the world of illusions, where she is together with this man. And she does not focus on the eternal and banal excuses of her beloved: you have to wait because the illusion in a relationship with a married man is sick, children are still young ... and the like.
The woman, absorbing like a sponge all the noodles she hangs on her ears, whispers lonely evenings in the hope that it is about to happen, and he will move in with her. And real life passes by, the clock rattles, including biological ones, so pass months and years. The mistress waits, tolerates, hopes and believes. At the same time, she refuses the opportunity to arrange her personal life, because she ceases to notice the free and lonely men around her.
And the reality is this. A married man, meeting with an unmarried girl, is not going to give up his family, leave his wife, as everything is cozy and familiar, and the main thing is acquired with great difficulty. He is used to his wife, and where is the guarantee that the mistress, moving to the status of his wife, he will not disappoint. Therefore, men always choose their family, and mistress, he only needs to feel like a man again.
Cases when a married man decides to divorce, very rare. This can happen only in one case if the man is sure that the new wife suits him completely and in all respects, she is better than the current one. And if he does not see it in the mistress, then he will stay with his family.
