Recently, the Internet has been overwhelmed with articles and recommendations on "How to conquer a man", "How to keep a man" and the like. Some "gurus" in this matter went further - they created appropriate training sessions. And a lot of insecure women go to such training, listen to such recommendations and make the stupidest thing in his life - trying to win a man, attract his attention, fall in love with himself, etc.
Is it worth conquering a man? Why stupidity? Because they have forgotten that the hunter is a man and the woman is the keeper of the family hearth. And not surprisingly, if the women went out on the "path of war", the men can only relax and watch the competing females, for their attention.
Why females? Because no normal and self-respecting woman will hunt for a man. Listen or read more carefully the phrase: "attract - conquer - keep".
Sounds funny, but it becomes sad. Than nowadays teach women to attract male attention - sexuality, ie their bodies. Unfortunately, smart and versatile women are not in fashion, but in fashion lovers of silicone. And the majority of young girls and older women are confident that after they enlarge their breasts, butt, plump lips and other body parts, they will have a deafening success with men. Maybe they will, but only for intimate relationships. Men are normal, I would like to emphasize that they are normal, they are also alpha males, they are looking for smart, interesting, educated, and watching over their body and health for family life. The phrase "watching their bodies" means that they are engaged in sports and eat exclusively healthy food. And "to pump yourself with silicone" or perform plastic surgeries means to disfigure yourself and your body. And one of the women wondered - men like women pumped with silicone? Judging by feedback on forums and social networks - silicone beauty does not attract them, even repulses them.
Is it worth winning a man? Next. How to win a man? Traps on him can bet on him? Or drive like a game on the hunt? Or with a tambourine around him to jump and make a stand on his head. By the way, I watched a similar picture in reality, when a girl made a stand on his head to keep the guy. But it didn't help, he left anyway.
Remember the classical literature, if a man liked the girl, he began to groom her, attract her attention, charm, give signs of attention and if the woman responded reciprocally, he made her an offer of hand and heart. In our time, everything is exactly the opposite. And the phrase "they lived happily ever after" is a thing of the past. As a result, the number of divorces exceeds the number of marriages.
Trying to win a man, the woman takes on a male role. Weak men take advantage of this and live as "parasites" at the expense of women. And strong men bypass such women by the tenth way. Why do they need prey that jumps into their hands? Hence, there are many single women and no less unhappy women living in wedlock.
Where does love go and why are there claims? Claims are always based on unmet needs. A need is a need, a necessity. The needs that lovers cannot meet for each other are the observed experiences of their parent families. Just as parents, for example, needed love, attention, respect, and their children (our lovers) need the same.
For example, you managed to attract the attention of men, to win and marry him. And then what? Your life turns into a constant struggle. You spend all your strength, nerves, your life to keep the man near you. And you don't have any guarantee that tomorrow he won't leave you for another one, for the one he conquered himself.
And you will stay at the broken trough. And you will blame everyone for your failures. And all the men, in your opinion, will be goats, scoundrels, etc. But in this situation will be only your fault.
Before you open a hunt for men, a hundred times think about whether the game is worth the candles. It is better to do yourself, your education, expand your horizons, do sports and most importantly gain confidence, increase your self-esteem. And let the men look for a way to attract your attention.
