Before talking about love quarrels, first we need to understand: And what is it - a love quarrel? What is it eaten with? Why do teeth break off about it sometimes? And in general, how does a love quarrel differ from a banal quarrel with classmates, colleagues, business partners, or just a bus neighbor or driveway?
A love quarrel is a quarrel with the person with whom you maintain a love or family relationship (I hope you don’t think that converting a love relationship into family automatically leads to the death of love?), which is characterized by ... Stop, stop, Stop. But what is it still characterized by? And indeed, according to scientific and logical principles, before giving a final definition, we first need to identify the signs, special signs of love quarrels. Let's start with this.
So, what are the similarities and differences between love quarrels and everyone else? In general, what does the prefix “love” give us? What is its essence? Let's go in order. Let's start with love relationships, with an understanding of how love relationships differ from ordinary relationships between people. And then it will immediately become clear to us how the love quarrels differ from everyone else. And if we can understand this, then we will understand what love quarrel is.
What is a classic love relationship? Let's figure it out.
Love relationships - this is such a more or less stable relationship between a man and a woman, which must be characterized by the presence of the following ten signs, characteristics:
Ten signs of love relationships
Your relationship with people of the opposite sex (or your own, if we are talking about lovers of same-sex love) are love affairs if they are characterized by the following ten signs, characteristics:
- More or less frequent personal meetings of partners.
- The desire to make the other person next to us comfortable. Simply put, the desire to seem better than we are (at least in the first weeks or months of a love relationship).
- The mutual ability to "adapt" to the characters under each other, the willingness to sometimes (or always!) Redraw your schedule and in general the rhythm of your life to the schedule and rhythm of your partner’s life.
- An unexpectedly revealed tendency to periodically obey your partner (But in ordinary life, we don’t like this oh!).
- A certain tolerance for those traits in the behavior, thinking, and character of another person, which always causes us irritation and has not been forgiven before. And now they say goodbye ...
- Mutual care for each other (including the willingness to go for the sake of another person for certain expenses and even sacrifices).
- Establishing or already established sexual relations.
- The presence of a conscious or as yet unconscious (either they haven’t thought about it yet, or are still afraid to think) of the desire to be together now and, preferably, to stay together forever (well, at least for a while). Outwardly, this can be expressed in meeting as often as possible, starting to live together, creating a family.
- An explicitly conscious experience in the event of a short or long break in communication (moreover, any: personal and even by phone or the Internet), the presence of an aggravated feeling of loss of this particular person, a keen desire to restore broken relationships as soon as possible (for one reason or another ( due to quarrels, business trips, etc.).
- Jealousy, that is, the manifestation of possessive feelings for a loved one, the desire to “privatize” him (her), to make only his (her).
Of course, these are far from all signs of a love relationship. However, this “hot love ten” still carries the most basic of them. Take one or two of these characteristics, characteristics and relationships will no longer be love. They will be anything: friendly, sexual, working, etc. etc. But, I emphasize: no longer amorous! If you want, you can experiment. Or just analyze your or other people's love relationships ...
We continue. If you call everything by their proper names and be aware that in nature there is no such thing that a male and a female would go around for months “just like that”, because they say, “it’s nice to communicate with each other”, we must admit:
The deep and true meaning (from Mother Nature) of creating love relationships is the birth of joint children.
And your choice would be extremely simple: either you would have a love relationship and, accordingly, children, or you should not make any love acquaintances. Because, jokes are jokes, but as you know, there may be ... Yes, yes, they are the same! Small, rosy-cheeked and wildly screaming. Our joy is with you ... Moreover, some people suddenly fell on their heads.