The question of whether it is worth renewing the old relationship has always been and will remain relevant. Many people argue that you cannot enter one river twice, from the natural point of view it is true, because the water in the river is constantly flowing, and therefore entering it from the same bank you are washed by another water. But when you part with your loved one, you may not want to go back to that person again because you've come all this way and you know what awaits you at the end. Are you sure that when you get together, the story won't repeat itself at first and you won't disperse again?
Is it worth renewing the old relationship? Once you've been betrayed, you've broken up, but you've continued to suffer and suffer, and live in an endless expectation... What? Opportunities for revenge? Or languished by the desire to get everything back? In the hope that one day he or she will understand what a mistake he or she has made and return to you? One day, you will open the door and see that the person who once caused you so much pain and suffering has come to return to your life. He/she will plead with you to forgive and accept, to promise that she will never make such a mistake again and to swear in eternal love, consistency, and faithfulness! And if there is still a glow of past love in your soul and there has been no global change in your personal life during this time, you may want to believe it. And you will come together again and start building an old new relationship. And everything will be fine, you will have no reason to worry and suspicion, everything will start to get better, you will feel loved/loved again. But is it true? It is possible to forgive, but it is impossible to forget and the past you will not cross out and, unfortunately, will not erase memory, unless somehow can receive amnesia. So somewhere deep in the soul, at a subconscious level, you will wait for your partner to hurt you again. Your feelings will be bare as wires, you will be looking for lies, where it does not exist, you will analyze every action of the partner, his/her behavior towards you. Once you have been betrayed and now you are not ready to trust again. You will live in the expectation that the person will fail again because you are sure that people do not change. Sometimes, not being able to withstand such a life waiting for someone to be abandoned, he or she starts making mistakes, cheating, snapping at trifles, i.e. creating the preconditions for being abandoned again.
Why do people converge and disperse and converge again? It looks like a vicious circle! How much time did you spend on loving each other? All the time you've been together, you've had quarrels and scandals in your life, the search for guilt, understatement, misunderstanding, lying, fear... and a little love. And no wonder that one of you two couldn't stand it and left. You didn't want to put up with the flaws of your loved one, tried to change it, you weren't interested in what your partner wanted, in your relationship you were thinking only about yourself. And when you were left alone, and there was a void in your soul, you realized that the shortcomings and weaknesses of your loved one are not so important, and the important thing is that now he is not around, now that you need him so much. And fleeting meetings with others can't help you fill the void. And you start to wait, you don't know what or who, but it's easier. Or maybe you continue to wait for someone who once left your life?
Is it worth renewing an old relationship? And yet, why do people come together and split up again and again? If they are not masochists and do not enjoy all this, it is Love! But why does it manifest itself in this way? It would seem that you love and love, but there will always be things that do not suit you, you will try to change something in a person, or start to change it to suit you, and he will of course resist, and in the end, you will part... Time will pass and he will understand that he cannot live without you, and it will be difficult for you to live without him, and he will be ready to change, and you will be ready to accept him as he is, and if you still feel love for each other - you get back together. And this process can happen more than once, but it's more normal, you rub it in, get used to each other, and it makes your relationship real and lasting.
But to avoid this endless process of "getting along - splitting up" and if you like it, maybe you should try to forget your past grievances and start a new relationship, albeit with your former partner, but from scratch.
