In binding and immobilization of the partner have a deep erotic overtones. The feeling of insecurity can help you to relax and surrender to the will of their own feelings. But that all went well and pleasantly for both parties, must comply with the rules.
What is bondage and why is it needed
Most likely, if you have a question, you don’t need bondage at all, you don’t find anything attractive and exciting in a partial loss of control over their own bodies.
So, bondage (not “bandage”) is the binding or fixation of the limbs with ropes, handcuffs, chains, tape or other means. Sometimes it involves hanging, but this is the level “advanced”, we’re not going to look there.
What is so exciting find bandagiste in your hobby?
The one who binds (“top”), enjoys the feeling of power over the partner. The one link (“lower”), takes pleasure in passing control over one’s own body in the hands of the top.
Do not forget that the ultimate goal of binding is physical, psychological and aesthetic pleasure for both partners. It is therefore important that lovers trust each other and wanted to give each other joy.
Safety rules
- Rope or tape should be free enough for them, it was possible to push two fingers. No need to pull partner, because it can lead to skin damage or problems with blood circulation in the limbs. The purpose of the top is only slightly limit mobility, not to squeeze blood vessels.
- The top needs to be checked frequently as areas that are in contact with the rope. In addition, the bottom is obliged to inform the top if he feels numbness or tingling in the associated limb.
- Never tie the rope so that it interfered with breathing.
- Never leave a bound person alone.
- At hand needs to hold the scissors, in the event of danger can quickly release associated.
- Use a soft rope.
- At the bottom should always be a real opportunity to untangle the knots — don’t make your fun in the “Play of Gerald”.
- Don’t forget the safe word and will abstain at first from the game with a gag.
The linking techniques
Most often, beginners tie their partners hands or feet. And rightly so! More complicated knots and techniques require skills that are not available for one session. Not worth it from the beginning to take a hard rope, which also will have some trouble. It is better to select something soft and pleasant to the touch.
The perfect soup for binding:
- neckerchief or a soft tie (I remember playing Christian grey?);
- handcuffs with fur;
- the tape (it needs to be special safe hypoallergenic adhesive tape for fixing);
- holder kits (wristlets and pouches, sex shops huge selection of devices for bondage).
How to start
It is not necessary to start a dialogue about new sex practices directly: “Tie me up. Immediately.” But to voice their desire not to hurt. You can say that you want to wear a blindfold tonight, and ask your partner to give you a massage. Don’t forget after that to tell me what you have experienced — share it with your partner, whether you like his actions and what would you like next.
Start with something simple and straightforward. No complicated devices and nodes. Your goal at the beginning of the game is to feel your own boundaries and those of the partner, to feel where the end of the limit. By the way, better before to make a list of “can / cannot be / can be.”
Best combined with soft bondage techniques — let it be, for example, massage, which will relax the bottom and make him trust touches the top. You can connect the game with the temperature drops — the drops of cold water, for example.
Whatever you do, remember that the most important thing is to enjoy it!