Probably, everyone who decides on their own to try BDSM equipment, experience of exhilaration. But it is important to know about some of the nuances about the fact that in the movies all show it is not too realistic. Here is all the details!
1. Safety is paramount
Any sexual play should be safe, healthy and consensual. For many, this is so obvious, but to repeat once again does not hurt.
2. Communication — important!
As in the practices of bdsm pleasure combined with pain, you should always focus not only on your feelings, but in the opinion of the partner. For example, flip flops — it is harmless until the game goes too far. Verbal and physical communication to be sure! Also, you should choose a safe word that any of you say if what is happening will no longer like.
3. Prepare
I remember an episode from the TV series “Friends” when Chandler spent the whole day handcuffed to a chair? It is unlikely that you will want to repeat! If you use handcuffs, make sure two sets of keys so that you can quickly unfasten the partner if necessary.
4. Don’t drink
BDSM in a state of intoxication, and even without experience is a dangerous mix. It’s nothing to risk the health! It is recommended to avoid at least tying and use of a belt or whip — you can not calculate the force.
5. Use accessories
Not necessary to buy expensive handcuffs with rhinestones. It is enough that there are houses: tie, scarf, belt. Bear in mind that during the game, things may be harmed.