Many pregnant mothers always feel that giving birth to children is from hell to heaven. They can be completely liberated. They don’t have to have a tough action on their stomachs. They don’t have to do anything, they are afraid to touch them, and they are no longer subject to so many restrictions. It is. However, some moms think that after giving birth, they just switched from one cell to another, because they just broke free from the pain of childbirth and continue to bring their children. After all, most of them started to take the children. It is also easy to have various contradictions with the family... For example, we will encounter the following things, let us take a look!
Generally, in the year after the baby is born, most of the treasure mothers need to go through these few things. Looking at which one you go to?
1. The family does not understand the mother.
Many novice pregnant mothers are taking care of their children. It is inevitable that the children will not be cared for. In real life, for many families, the mother who just gave birth to a child is far less important than the baby just born, so the elders at home Sometimes when I see a child crying, being in trouble, not sleeping... I will blame the questioning mother, and the mother who cares for the child every day is very tired and has to be blamed by the parents, and she has to go. Recovery, so it is really very difficult.
2. Family disregard for women.
Many family mothers regard her as a baby during pregnancy, but after giving birth to the child, the family's love for pregnant is transferred to the baby's body, and no one pays attention to the recovery of the mother's body, and the mother cares every day. Everything is perfect, and I am afraid of a little difference. I don’t have to worry about taking care of the children during the day. I have to give my children night milk at night, work hard, rest is not in place, my mental state is very bad, and my family’s indifference is over time. Women mothers are likely to have postpartum depression, mentally and physically depressed at the same time. Therefore, many treasure moms feel that the day after the birth of their children is the most difficult day for women.
3. No money for torture and heart.
Taking care of children takes a lot of energy, so many moms decide to take care of their baby at home after giving birth, and abandon their work. What comes with it is the actual economic problem. Because of this, there is a lack of a source of wages, plus the baby. The cost is really big, milk powder, daily necessities... Because the baby's resistance is not very good, sometimes the baby regenerates a disease and makes the mother more headache. If pregnant does not make much money, then the whole family will face a tense economy. Stress, it will be very heart-warming.
4. Suffering from insufficient sleep.
Many treasure moms said that after having children, women has hardly slept a good feeling for a few years, because during the day, BMW has to take care of children during housework. At night, the baby will wake up every few hours and change the baby. I don't have diapers, breastfeeding... Some babies need to keep patience if they cry. Women really can't stop for a moment, so within a year after the baby is born, it will be very difficult for women to feel sleepless enough. Moreover, it is really hard for women to be exhausted every day.
How about you? What miserable things have you encountered in the first year of giving birth to your baby? Have you encountered these problems above, if the pregnant mothers encounter these things, they should be resolved in time to maintain a good mood.
When children get a lot of love and care from their parents, they will let them have a love response, so that they want to be like parents, and most of the time they want to make their parents happy. This is a truly important influence that parents have to restrain and motivate their children.
The love of the parents determines whether the child will grow into a warm person or an indifferent person in the future, a trustworthy person or a person who is not trustworthy, an optimistic person or a pessimistic person. It can be seen that the love and concern of parents play a very important role in the growth of children.