It is still widely believed that a woman is not a woman's desire to live alone and therefore it is assumed that an unmarried woman tried to find a partner, but failed.
Benefits of being alone.
However, more and more women are consciously choosing loneliness, which seems to offer more solid advantages than free relationships or marriage. Such women value loneliness; they need privacy, and the space they need for physical and emotional freedom and independence is difficult to provide intimate relationships. Neither the prestige of marriage nor the constant contact with any partner contributes to the creation of independence and freedom as valued by them as loneliness. These benefits are also felt in the workplace, where opportunities for career development and travel do not conflict with other interests, as is the case with a woman bound by family responsibilities.
Overcoming loneliness.
Loneliness, however, has its problems, especially if you are not alone of your own choice, but due to circumstances. You will have to confront people with the belief that you want to be married even more, which may force you to take a defensive stance and defend your lifestyle. For some women, loneliness is a huge advantage, but for most, loneliness and isolation become the worst of all flaws. A woman who has a regular partner is likely to have a regular sex life and constant emotional attachment in a stable relationship. However, a lonely woman's sexual life is often episodic; she has to seek out the warmth and friendship of her friends and satisfy her sexual needs in a completely different place.
If you are lonely, you still need to communicate with others, you can't do without an environment of people who mean something to you and take care of you - it can be friends, relatives, even former lovers. It doesn't matter, because you can always call them when you are in a bad mood, you want to cry on someone's shoulder or celebrate an event.
Your friends may also want to ask you for moral support as well as get it. Being able to enjoy the intimacy of old friends is the best substitute for the feeling of constant care in a stable sexual relationship.
One of the biggest losses of a lonely person is lack of physical attachment - Masturbation can replace sex, but maybe especially for a woman, there is no substitute for a sense of comfort created by a sense of belonging. In a good relationship, you give someone else and you yourself receive a sign of love that is natural and simple, taken for granted, with no obligation to continue if you are not in the mood. However, women in episodic heterosexual relationships often find it particularly difficult to carry out these very important non-sexual expressions of tenderness. It is very likely that you will have to turn to your close friends if you are lonely because true friendships include uncomplicated affection for the soul, which is one of the basic human needs. To a man who is a true friend, you can (being completely honest about what you want) maintain affection that does not affect certain strings of the soul.
Meeting people.
You believe that meeting people, whether they are just acquaintances or possible partners, is best at work, with mutual friends or on the basis of common interests and hobbies. These situations provide the foundation on which to build a relationship, and because such meetings are random, you can more easily develop them at your own pace.
Many single people have family friends who feel obligated to organize meetings for them. Accept all such invitations, as they at least broaden your social horizons. However, don't expect too much from them; it may be easier for you to be yourself when you're not dating someone who is meant to be a partner,
It is usually difficult for a woman to take the first step in a social (or, say, sexual) plan, but if you meet an attractive man and want to see him again, take the initiative if he doesn't do so. A simple trick reminds him that you exist and are interested in him: for example, a postcard with a joking reminder of any details of your conversation, a book or music you've discussed, or even a centuries-old ticket to a concert or theater that has fallen from the sky. However good the first step is, take your time to complete it. Give him time to answer in his own way, taking his time to make phone calls, and when he calls, don't be too pliable.