These days, I heard several stories in succession: The first one is a girl who has been working since she was a sophomore, and has not returned to her hometown to see her parents for 11 years. The reason is that she left the house when she left home, and she will never go home without mixing her personal samples.
The "personality" she understands includes the fact that there are cars and houses that have a good job and a good job. To put it bluntly, there is a capital that allows parents to show off to relatives and friends. The second story is the son of my relatives, who graduated from college and was hired by a foreign company. In order not to let his colleagues look down on it, when he couldn't afford a laptop, he used a computer to wrap a cutting board. He went to work every day and walked for almost half a year until he bought the laptop. The third story is a partner of mine. The buddy who is the CEO of the state-owned enterprise is going crazy by various banquets. As a "three high" person, his health indicators have turned red. And his wife and children, because of the inability to eat family meals with him, are quite annoying. He poured out the bitter water when I casually said that one day to find time to gather. He even said with infinite distress: "Now I feel that who is good to me is not asking me to eat, let me go home before dinner. " In the above three stories that are irrelevant, there is something that makes people feel the cold, and I call it "the psychological state that is not consistent with the well-off era. " This state of mind is mostly recessive, but it will dominate the moods and sorrows of people, and even do earth-shattering things. For example, the kid in the second story, a salary of more than 3, 000 yuan a month, although not enough to get rich, but to support themselves and cultivate their own opportunities to continue to learn and develop is completely.
But because I am eager to make people feel like he is like others, and try to conceal and let myself be someone else, and the sufferings that endure in it are totally unnecessary in my opinion - I don't believe which company will be unscrupulous. It is his own feeling to expel a person without a laptop and let him not want to give birth. In the first story, the girl finally went back to see her parents. Her parents had not seen her for many years. Whether her mood is missing or resentful is not known. But what is certain is that what they lose is the joy of family life, a kind of life, and this kind of thing is exactly what their "ultimate successful people" in their eyes yearn for and lack. In the third story, the annual salary is over one million. The bosses who have good houses and luxury cars are yearning for them. They are clearly the peaceful, stable, and loving life they abandoned. Most people"s lives have been well-off. The process is quite a fable: a group of cockroaches is kept outside the restaurant, and their eyes are green. Suddenly one day, the restaurant owner announced that everyone can come in and eat for free. The scene at the time was imaginable—struggling, grabbing, grabbing clothes with your hands, and no matter what you eat, no matter what, you would say it in your arms, lest the boss suddenly announced that he would stop feeding, so good days. And stop.
But the boss did not announce the cessation, but announced an unlimited supply of long-term supply. In this way, the noodles caught in the hands or the braised pork in the arms are not so good. The first reaction to the elimination of tension is to close up the indecent eating phase. The second reaction is to upgrade the grade and ask the boss to come to two glasses of wine that are not full of stomach but can enhance the spirit of eating. The wine glass is in the hand, and the oil stains on the hands, face and body are found. The instinctive desire is to change clothes. Once the clothes are on the upper body, they can't ignore the food and the pie. Once they take care of their image and face the food, they are no longer embarrassed because their hearts are endless.