Recently, the sky forever blue a friend's Son Nan lovelorn, locked himself in the house for a month without going out.So the phone I went for its grooming.After some understanding, the sky always blue finally understand the true crux of the original, he painstakingly pursued his girlfriend for two years, was a rural“Hillbilly”poor man easily caught within a month.In his words, it was the“greatest humiliation "he had suffered in his life," even the faces of his parents were lost."”
In fact, let Nan most sad not only by his girlfriend abandoned lovelorn, his real pain lies in the identity and image of the opponent to beat him, he believes that no matter from the family environment (friends and couples are executive leadership), or their appearance conditions, he is much stronger than the "Hillbilly", even that is not the same level, no comparison.But two men so different, in front of the same girl, she chose the very humble poor cocky male, his sense of superiority was torn to pieces, he has so far thought that the girl's brain into the water, there are problems.Like an old man, who has always been respected, suddenly, without any foreknowledge, and for no good reason, being slapped by a young child so dazed, so dazed, so humiliated ... in any case, he must understand the reason for his being slapped in the face, and not be able to wait for a moment.
Thus, the sky always blue to NAN analysis of his girlfriend may exist several psychological, that is, princess-like Girl why would prefer poor wretched man (wretched, refers to the behavior of tweaking, restraint, unnatural; or describe the body looks, temperament.Not everyone thinks that kind of sick man)?
First, to sacrifice a sense of superiority to support the inner sense of security；
Many times, marriage is a natural choice for love to demand a sense of security, especially for women.The reason why women marry a man is not just to love him, but more often because she wants to ask him for a sense of security.This shows that the sense of security in the weight of a woman's marriage.So what kind of man can give her security?According to Sky Forever Blue know, now a lot of girls are not satisfied with each other's love for her, they will think, marriage must have a mutual comparison after the absolute match, that one party is obviously superior to the other party, so from social, psychological and physical feelings on all aspects, let the other party has a clear tendency toHowever, they have to make the necessary sacrifices, she may not love him, but by sacrificing this sense of superiority, they can change the relative security of their hearts, this is what they need most.
Second, look for a hard-wearing stone.；
A piece of white paper to paint the latest and most beautiful picture, clever sculptor will always choose the most humble most rustic stone.So, the sky always blue here wants to make a bold analysis.Perhaps the rural poor wretched men are more likely to inspire women to have a sculpture, or more likely to inspire them to have a motherhood and potential, than the men and women in the city who are used to seeing the Big World.
Although this sentence is more likely to be a joke, but it is worth some puzzling thought.Looking for a wearable Stone, even if it is a little ugly, will not accept semi-finished products, perhaps in order to really sculpt a piece of really suitable for themselves, although not expensive, but it is the one and only gem.
Thirdly, a complementary marriage is better；
Reality many marriages tell us, complementary marriage more happy, this complement can be reflected in many aspects, such as: growth environment, physical characteristics, economic conditions and other aspects.This point seems to be explained by the theory of war, the two countries are mostly in the two countries is not a big difference between the strength, when the two sides, and if the strength of the difference, it is often possible to avoid the war, that one side will take the initiative to the other to bow, at the same time,
Perhaps the sky is always blue this kind of argument is a bit crooked, but may wish to be for your reference, the girls make such a choice, whether from a certain extent, there is a little bit of psychological reason?
Fourthly, to the material peace of mind to fill the emotional stability；
The sky is always blue. I don't know how this ex-girlfriend of Nan is, but I think it's not going to be bad.It is difficult to explain her“disregard for substance”behaviour if it is analysed in a more general way.In this material age, the probability of a poor girl to choose a boy who is poorer than herself is getting smaller and smaller.However, women who are financially better off (i.e., princess-type girls) tend to take the matter very lightly, after all, from small to large, no lack of food through, can not understand the difficult.In addition, from the more realistic factors, the family conditions are good, but can really make up for the man's poverty, at most, also let the family a little.But take the family soft, cannibalistic short mouth, the two married, the woman's family out of the money more than the man, natural women in the family some more right to speak, this right to speak from a certain extent, is to master the initiative of marriage, this initiative as long as no abuse, under the same circumstances, how much of their
Fifth, it is easy to find a man to be a lover, it is too difficult to marry a man to be a wife.
According to the sky always blue observation, although our country is more and more men and women, but if a woman really want to marry her, it is not an easy thing.After all, it's easy to find a man to be a lover, but it's hard to marry a man to be a wife.So in this case, a lot of girls can not always insist on their own, early Good Men Have Missed, have become someone else's husband, in the end is often only the second to choose a slightly worse man.While doing the old girl's leftover, but often their condition is excellent, there is a left female Joan also.Saint will eventually want to understand, married life is the choice of regularity, and watching others excellent husband, rather than to find a real full of their own.Not to mention as long as the Savor, in fact, the rural wretched man did not imagine so unacceptable, at least they plasticity, can suffer, listen to their own words, can give themselves a sense of security, and even a lot are quite good performance stocks.Men, long-term behavior is not a matter of concern, but a little bit of temporary poverty can stimulate more hard work, what is right or wrong, intelligent woman in many specific circumstances, nature will have a choice.